Now you're using your noggin I highly recommend that, if you're getting serious with a gal, take a good look at her parents. If they're fat and nasty, she's probably gonna be the same way when she's older (and she might take after her dad OR her mom).
Currently dating a girl with a boob job. Not sure what to think about that. I mean, obviously I like that but in terms of long term potential I highly doubt girls like that are wifey material. Am I wrong?
WTF? Seriously? If she's a stripper, maybe your question has merit, but otherwise, I see nothing wrong with enhancements...if it helps their self esteem/image, so be it...bring on the fake boobs... btw, droxford's fat scenario is pretty spot on, as sad as it seems...
I am not a fan of fake t*** but I don't think it's that bad I know some "good girls" who have them it's not all strippers/sluts so it's a case by case issue There are things about my g/f that she did before me that I did not like -2 small tats removed (she got them at 18 and her dad made her get them removed) -She smoked for years and quit about a year before we dated -She had bad parents and ran with a bad crowd in hs Does any of this mean she is a bad person? No but it made me pause until I realized I did things I regret and also things I don't but she might not like I say if they look good and you like em than roll with it
She's not a stripper but she could be a slut, for all I know. I don't like to admit this but we met through flippin Myspace. I check my page maybe once a month then I get a message from this girl saying "Hey, I know people you went to school with blah blah blah". So I just went with it. I've dated girls like this in the past (not on Myspace I just mean girls with the 'She looks good but looks like garbage' look) and never really gave them a chance in the girlfriend/LT potential department. I'd like to quit that habit so I plan on giving this girl a chance, I guess. Funny you mention tattoos -- she has six of them. We have nothing in common either. Everything from music to leisure stuff to whatever. Still, I know plenty of people in 'opposites attract' type of relationships. We'll see what happens I guess but i'm afraid to find out about this girl's past!
C'mon now, you act like everybody that is fat is miserable and sad. I'm sure there are plenty of people that are overweight and happy. Gaining weight is not the end of the world. If you base your relationship on how fat the person will be in the future, you probably shouldn't be with that person. Agreed. Some of yall are way too picky. "If I have one more drink, I'm gon' end up F'ing youuuuu.....you tooo."
Well, I wouldn't say that everybody that is fat is miserable. But I'd say an overwhelming majority of them are.
Your point is valid, but so is his. People need to think about whether they could potentially not be attracted to a person later on down the road. Just a simple truth. You don't want to ignore it only to hurt someone later after they (and you) have invested emotionally.
As sad as it seems, what droxford said is true for many, many people. A lot of marriages fall apart because of it. And it happens with both sexes. I just think it's important for both partners to be physically active and have a certain degree of dedication to exercise that will carry on throughout the years. I'm very focused on cultivating strong exercise habits that I will sustain. Because once you get old...it becomes harder to stay fit. As far as deal breakers, I like tall guys, but I don't think it would be a deal breaker. Probably bad hygiene and no sense of humor...I would definitely think twice about pursuing it further.
For girls, I don't like them to be thuggish either (or try to act 'ghetto'). Also, she can't be overly rude to other people, wear ****ty clothes, and have bad hygiene.
I sincerely hope that some of you folks never marry a significant other who gains weight, or god forbid, has a child that is obese.
