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[Dating deal breakers]What's yours?

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by Lady_Di, Jan 28, 2009.

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  1. Shroopy2

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    No Kirilenko Plan
    Dating Discontinued
     
  2. ElPigto

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    Deal-Breakers for me:

    -Excessive jealousy
    -Getting mad over stupid things
    -Don't like chunky girls, not skinny either, but in the average size doesn't have to be some supermodel.
    -Lack of intelligence
    -Smells (breath/teeth)

    That's pretty much it for me.
     
  3. rocketsjudoka

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    I wasn't looking at those guns.

    When I met her was about 5 years ago she looked a lot better off court. Anyway I don't know if she was giving me her number because she actually had any interest or was trying to dissuade my friend. Somebody at the club told me she was a lesbian which is fine by me if she wanted me to join in the mix... heh heh..

    I thought it would've been cool to play against her in a scimmage but she said she wasn't allowed to play in pick up games.
     
  4. krnxsnoopy

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    If a girl is taller than me.. or weighs more than me. lol
     
  5. rocketsjudoka

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    Not having female genitalia would be a deal breaker.
     
  6. bigbadjon_e

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    Christians and Republicans
     
  7. Ziggy

    Ziggy QUEEN ANON

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    Women that use the term "deal breaker". Or any other Dr. Phil type jargon.

    Seriously.
     
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    lol I seriously laughed out loud.
     
  9. wreck

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    -good at math

    today at taco cabana some good looking chick that worked there couldnt figure out the change i would get from 19 cents on a dollar with out the cash register and she asked for a calculator. i instantly felt like asking her out.
     
  10. Invisible Fan

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    sad but true

    Weird thing is though, I think I wouldn't care if my future wife becomes fat.
     
  11. Lady_Di

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    Lol...I guess she wasn't shy about dropping a deuce. You wouldn't know if they dropped one if they were quiet, anyways. :)
     
  12. FranchiseBlade

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    A woman that says no when I asked them out.
     
  13. RocketsPimp

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    Are you just happy with a guy that had a D? Picky, picky.
     
  14. Shroopy2

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    No guarantee that a tall guy is more protective and tougher than a smaller guy.

    Men's Hair = Women's Looks. Both disappear
    Some men are even so lucky to still have hair to enjoy

    Nothing wrong with the personal convenience preferences though.
     
  15. Royals Ego

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    don't want kids
    no sense of humor
    poor hygiene

    other than that, i'm willing to take a chance on any lady
     
  16. SwoLy-D

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    WTF. Most of you are the shallowest or most materialistic M'F'ers I've ever [read] or known. :eek: I don't need to explain. I am not perfect, either.

    The lady asked what your DATING DEAL BREAKER is. I believe Fatty had it right the first time. I believe she's asking for what could keep you from further dating someone as soon as you find out something about a person... isn't that right, ms Lady_Di? :confused:

    First of all, I'm married, but I didn't have a "deal breaker" while I dated. I think some may argue that this is something that was a deal breaker to me, but I dont: I believed that anything could be fixed, and if she still didn't see that it should be fixed, I'd stop asking her out again.
     
  17. droxford

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    Heh... yeah, you'd think that....

    but....

    When she gets fat, her self-esteem goes down the toilet.
    She'll begin self-loathing.
    She'll dread the idea of sex because she feels so bad about her body.
    Additionaly, the physical decline in her body reduces her sex drive.
    The death of your sex life will frustrate you.
    She slips into the cycle of eating more because she's depressed.
    It affects her relationship with her husband in a negative way.
    It affects her relationship with her kids in a negative way.
    It affects her relationship with herself in a negative way.
    She stops socializing.
    Sits on the couch
    Eating.
    And getting more depressed.
    And you get to feel helpless about it, because it's almost entirely out of your realm of control.

    Solutions exist, and require a LOT of work, time, cost, and dedication by you, the family, and most of all, her. Most people either don't try, or try and fail. Few succeed in turning things around. And as time goes by and people age, the problem gets worse and worse, and the solutions become more and more difficult to achieve.


    And then, you realize....

    yeah. You do care if she becomes fat. Not necessarily because of your image of her, but because of the extensive negative impact it has on your marriage, your family and herself.

    Be very careful. This is not to be taken lightly.

     
     
  18. pmac

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    :eek: That just scared the f*** out of me. No more thick chicks for me!
     
  19. rezdawg

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    Okaaaaaaaaay then...When I get married, I'll be sure to have 2 gym memberships along with a fridge stocked with low fat foods.
     
  20. Invisible Fan

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    That's it. From now on, I will only date daughters of milfs.
     

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