One of my best friends in high school married my sister. Two years later my sister decided she was gay and they divorced. My ex-brother-in-law and I aren't friends anymore. No moral here, just sharing.
Franchise3: no offense to your friend, but it sounds from your story like he is immature about relationships. I have a rule about guys like that: if they can't take no for an answer and just be friends, and keep clinging/pursuing you and trying to convince you, then you stay away from them (or just friends) until they've grown up a little. When someone pursues you that much, you have to wonder about how much he enjoys the thrill of the chase and whether he would be able to be satisfied in a relationship once it actually happened. They're usually nice guys once they grow out of that phase.
While there may not be an official guy code for this situation, there is a thread code for these types of threads. Its called Useless without Pics! I say beat his ass. I don't think there is anything wrong with it if he asks you about before he makes any move at all. But if he won't even mention it to you, he deserves to be kicked in the nose.
Dude. She's NOT your little sister anymore. I was believing every word about protecting her until this point "leave her be." I think she knows how to handle the annoying guy. She'll be OK. Now, if he doesn't listen, yes... by all means beat his ass to a pulp.
There's also the possibility that she's telling you about it now hoping that you'll speak to him. Indirectly asking for your help, in other words. Does this sound like something she'd do? I'd ask her directly how she'd like you to proceed. She's an adult, but she's still your sis, and he's your friend. Maybe she's afraid of causing problems between you two. I don't have any sibs, but if i was interested in a friends sister, I'd think it the respectful thing to do to ask him about it first. I'd ask her, if I were you.
Can't believe i'm the first to say - Useless without pics. But in all serious, I dont think that's a cool move at all.
Haha. I think he'd punch you for even asking. LOL By the way, this is a really GOOD way to lose a close friend. There's tons of fish in the sea. And you just HAD to go for his SISTER.
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Then they are both adults, let them do what they want. Now if he is asking your sister out and won't leave her alone you might mention something then but besides that I would just let them be.
I know you were just answering the age question, but I don't see what the rest of that has to do with anything.
I think you're missing the point of this thread. It isn't really about my sister - she can do whatever she wants. It's about my friend - as in, isn't it a courtesy for a good friend to tip you off if he wants to date one of your siblings.
I wouldn't care if one of my friends dated either of my sisters and I wouldn't care if they chose not to ask my permission or whatever. Like I said, they are both adults and I am neither of their fathers so I don't have anything to do with the situation. If a friend wants to ask the sister out and she says yes then fine and if she says no then fine. Why does it matter if he tips you off or not?
