I just saw this thread and I'm sorry to hear about this. How is your Dad doing? How are you doing as well? I wish i had something to offer. My Mom has dementia and Dad was her primary caretaker. Even with BCBS insurance, it was difficult for him to get her help. He did all the research and after years of looking, finally got a provider to come in for a few hours every day. Now that Dad has passed on, my sister has stopped working (as bakery manager at HEB) and taken over taking care of Mom full time at home. I wish I could offer something to help. Maybe this page has some links that may be of assistance. http://www.strokeassociation.org/ST...Resources_UCM_310462_Article.jsp#.W5ptgKZKjIU