Ok ok, sorry but dont lie, you like reading girl thread! :-D I agree, it's nothing wrong with admiring someone. I see this dude in the gym and he's hot, nothing more. Yeah, that could be it too but not a bad envy where you're jealous of the girl and don't like her. It's perfectly fine to admire/envy a chick for what they have. Sorry, I should have put a disclaimer to not google JNL at work! I will put it in my edited post. I knew you guys would like her!
^That's b/c I thought it was going to be about girl on girl...but I digress... Boner... Nice...very nice...
what about when someone has a crush on you? how do you react to it? I have a 19 year old neighbor that has confessed her crush.
The word is "attraction" or "infatuation", thank you very much. Kam, whom have I 'crushed' over? I still don't get it. Every time I see my wife in a skimpy outfit or something VERY revealing, I have a crush.
I've never had a crush.. and as for the picture... a woman's shoulders should never be broader/wider.. than her hips.. also appears a bit disproportioned by her overall lower half..
Speaking of Jennifer Nicole Lee my wife rented "The Harder I Work, The Luckier I Get" by another fitness model Jenny Lynn... and for anyone who's curious to see what it takes to have a body like that...check that video out. She's doing 1 armed bent over rows with 70lbs. Of course she's competing for the Figure/Fitness Ms. Olympia so she's a little more muscular than J.N.L.
I think that 'lady' on Law and Order is hot. Detective Olivia. Oh and my wife..... LOL SwolyD!!!!!!!!
Yeah, that 'Lady'... ^ Inside Joke. ... her name is Mariska Hargitay. I would, yes, sir. I suggest seeing 'The Love Guru.'
Now that I'm no longer AT WORK, I can finish reading this thread and post in it... I've gotten crushes, but they're not the same kind a lot of you seem to get. They never involve celebrities - I don't even know those people, they're probably total a__holes anyway. A character in a movie, maybe, but obviously I don't get too into the fictitious ones. Most of the crushes I've had have involved guys I knew in real life, who were single, that I'd grown to feel some special attraction to after talking to them and feeling like we "clicked" or seeing that they were a person that I thought highly of but was still on my wavelength. They don't have to look traditionally good. While of course this sounds like where you get relationships from, it's not always: you can't be in a relationship with everyone (and might be already taken), and the other person might not be interested in you the same way. I'm perfectly happy to have unrequited crushes, as it were; it's part of life and at least you get to enjoy the person's friendship. You can be blessed with their company some of the time. I know how much it hurts to mess up good friendships and wouldn't do anything else for that reason alone. I had several crushes when I was married to my ex and tried to ignore them for the most part. It still made me feel trapped in the relationship, though. I realize now that was because there wasn't much decent substance to the relationship I had, but I still hope I won't end up having the same problems again. Commitment is scary. At least I haven't developed any new crushes since getting with my fiance, so hopefully it won't be so hard, what with having a better relationship this time. If crushes do happen, hopefully they can be easily dismissed or just seen as a passing fantasy.
Yeah I have a crush on Jennifer Nicole Lee too, along with a bunch of other fitness models. You should check her out on the latest cover of American Curves Mag. www.americancurvesmag.com
speaking of crush.. I found my elementary school crush on facebook and I've got to meet her a few months ago.. after 15 yearS!!
