This either has to be fake, or i'm sorry to say this - you are an idiot. Stare at this picture - you will not get back with this girl, ever ever ever....EVER!!!
T_n_C's got it exactly right. As a girl, I can only offer you this advice- that wench is messed up. Cheating on a person is one thing, I'm sure that many people have commited some indiscretion in the past, and feel genuine remorse regarding it. But the fact that she had the gall to continue, and call you up during the act means two things: One, she is a cheap and evil w****, probably infested with some incurable disease. And two, if you go back, even for a second helpings, you will deserve whatever happens after this point. As for screwing her best friend- you're not still dating her, so that's technically legal on the revenge card.
I disagree, ma'am. Two wrongs DON'T make a right by any means. NEVER take revenge. It will escalate into a revenge for the revenge because of the revenge of the revenge of the revenge of... (you get my point).
Look, I used to only date crazy girls, too, but trust me, it always ended up badly. Run from this woman.
I'm not saying it's right, but if it makes the man feel an inch taller for a short while... Perhaps if the best friend was hot, and he truly had a good time at sex with her, it isn't technically revenge. Who even knows if the ex would have any mental anguish about it. But if he solely did this act, without even enjoying it, that might be a more pure form of revenge. Of course, this opinion was solely on the basis of someone who has a wonderful relationship with another person. This situation has never, and (hopefully) will never occur. On the topic of revenge, I've only committed revenge on a small degree... for instance, I hid my brother's favorite Nintendo game. I'm not a saint, but I've just not cared enough most of the time to ever commit revenge.
Forgive her because it will make you feel better and you can go on living your life. But don't get back with her ... You are just dooming yourself to another letdown. And this time, it will be YOUR fault not hers because you were stupid enough to get back with her.
I know this isn't the high road, and going off how you have reacted to this girl so far, I definitely know you would never do it...but this is the perfect scenario for some revenge. The most obvious and easiest is as SJC says, do her, get photo or video proof, and get it on the net. Or do something more creative. I don't have the energy now to come up with something...perhaps a version of the famous brownie gag...but either way, she needs to pay for that stunt with the other guy.
Rule #1: NEVER GOT BACKWARDS!! Rule #2: Once a cheater always a cheater Dude. . . that pain you feel . . .it will NEVER go away and you will *always* suspect that suspicion will never go away TRUST ME . .. Rocket River
Well I don't completely agree with the once a cheater always a cheater. I mean I started dating my wife when I was 17, and I cheated on her a couple times early on. In fact, we both did. We were young and didn't really know what a serious relationship was. Nowadays I would never even think about cheating. I was a completely different person then, I was just a kid. Your situation is different though. She sounds like a straight up w****. I wouldn't even get a quick bang from her; there is no telling where she is been since you last had a piece of that.
The biggest mistake I've ever made in past relationships was taking a cheater back. Every time she acts like a biatch, you will 1. feel like bringing up that shes a cheating ho and 2. remember that shes a cheating ho. Don't do it and move on.
dude you will never forget whats she done and you when you get mad you will always remember her getting it in the pooper and having the gall to call you. sorry man but she must have no respect for you. J
I'm more curious as to why you keep torturing yourself. Do you think you somehow deserve such treatment? Jesus, man. Run away. Fast.
Slick Rick Lyrics - Treat Her Like a Prostitute Here's an oldie but goodie Hit it Excuse me What' Can I have your attention' Mn-hmm There's just a few things that I've got to mention (uh-huh) There's girlies out here that seem appealing But they all come in your life and cold hurt your feelings I'm telling you As rick is my name I wouldn't trust not girl unless she feels the same Treat 'em like a prostitute (do what' ) Don't treat no girlie well until you're sure of the scoop 'cause all they do is they hurt and trample Listen up close, here comes my first example Now ya been with your girlfriend for quite a while Plans for the future, she's having your child Celebrate with friends drinking cans and quarts Telling all your friends about your family thoughts One friend was drunk so he sstarts to act wild He tells the truth about the kid It's not your child Acting like a jerk and on his face was a smirk He said, your wife went berserk while you was hard at work And she led him on and tried to please him She didn't waste time, she didn't try to tease him Treat 'em like a prostitue (do what' ) Don't treat no girlie well until you're sure of the scoop 'cause all they do is they hurt and trample Listen up close, here comes my second example It's your wife You buy the tramp jewels and clothes You get sentimental and bring home a rose Give her everything 'cause you swear she's worth it All your friends tell you, the bith dont' deserve it Love is blind, so there goes your wealth Until one day, you see things for yourself Came home from work early, mr. loverman You had a card and some candy in your right hand There's the mailman, he was short yet stout He went inside your house and didn't come back out Bust it Just a friendly stop, come on, is it' The mailman comes and he pays your wife a visit' The thought alone makes your temperature boil You say to yourself, she might still be loyal You open up your door and stand in a trance You see the mailman's bag and the mailman's pants Came home to party At work had a hard day Look around your house and you say, where the hell are they' Run upstairs up to your bedroom You look inside your room, you see something brewin' Cover your mouth because you almost choke You see the mailman's dick way up your wife's throat Treat 'em like a prostitute (mm-hmm) Don't treat no girlie well until you're sure of the scoop 'cause all they do is they hurt and trample Listen up close, here comes my third example Now your girl, she don't like to have sex a lot And today she's ready and she's hot, hot, hot As you open up the door she says, get on the floor She wants to try things she's never tried before She takes off your drawers and works you over She calls you twinkles And you call her rover Next thing you know, the ho starts to ill She says, I love you, harold and your name is will That's not the half 'til you start to ride her Take off your rubber and there's one more inside her It's not yours-who can it be' I think it was a slick rapper, his name is m.c. ricky Treat 'em like a prostitute Don't treat no girlie well, treat no girlie well Treat no girlie well, until you're sure of the scoop Just some Info for ya Courtesy of Rocket River
This reminds of the story of King David in the bible and how he reacted when the prophet of God painted a chilling picture to him that arroused similar sentiments like we see in this thread. I cannot tell the whole story but you can read it up yourself later. It is more godly to man up and forgive. He who is without sin cast the first stone. Interesting we as humans have a way of equating the gravity of sin - saying well the sins I commit are not as grave as this other guy's (the Pharisee mentality) of self righteousness. I am not in anyway saying that when this lady did (as alleged) was not wrong or that she should be forgiven and welcomed back but I am just trying to point out the flaw in our self centered way of viewing things. All of us are filthy and sinful in God's eyes. This is not a sermon but call to sobberness and humility when i comes to quickly wwriting people off. I hope this lady in question has repented of her ways and is willing to lead a noble life from this point onwards. The seeds of her actions will in due time bear fruits but we should retrain ourselves from this great urge to become "righteous" stoners and moralists.
Forgive? Probably, get back togheter? No way. and now i'm talking about normal cheating, And not about your situation. Don't even think aout getting back to that girl. Don't torture yourself
