What if you're out on a first date and all of a sudden a guy takes you down to the ground. As you get up in shock, the guy is being held back by what look like security guards. You're blinded by the bright light and cameras. A dorky white guy with glasses asks you "what are you doing with her?" What do you say?
I kinda did something like this during college. I knew she had a BF, but I wasn't friends with him anything. I had a little bit of guilt at the situation, just basically b/c I wouldn't want to be in her boyfriends shoes. Things were a lot better/more enjoyable when we messed around after she dumped her boyfriend (no, this girl and i were never in a relationship).
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This is crazy. I start this thread just to see what kind of debate that crops up, and tonight my friend calls me and tells me this Brazilian girl that he works with is dropping crazy hints left and right that she wants to hook up with him...but she has a boyfriend. He says she's also been saying things like she wants to break up with her bf and she's bored with him, etc.
Agreed. You shouldn't feel guilty for what you didn't know about, though. With all of this it is easy to sit here and say what is right or wrong. It is another to be in the situation and actually see it as clearly. Emotions, hormones, and whatever else gets in the way. That doesn't make it ok, but it is different than sitting on the outside. I will say this. If you respect the girl why would you want to wreck her home life? You know how much drama and misery that could cause if she ends up getting a divorce from her husband? If she ends up getting a divorce or whatever, then feel free to pursue it.
RElax and enjoy yourself. Sleep with one eye open. Seriously - do not mess around with someone married-too dangerous
Make sure if you're sleeping with a married woman that she won't yell rape when her husband shows up and has a gun. Poor guy.
The opinions in threads like these almost always seem to come down to age and experience of posters. To me, cheating in your teens and 20's is totally different than cheating in your 30's, 40's etc. Don't get me wrong, I'm against cheating period. But let's be honest: what are the consequences of cheating in high school or college? You fight, break up, and find someone else. That's really about it. Once you're out of college and in the "real world", the consequences are much greater whether you're married or in a serious relationship. There is much more at stake and much more to lose.
I think I saw this episode of Cheaters. . . I think you get up and says You just jealous cause she want me .. or something like that Is that the right answer. . . Nothing like Good Cheaters Trivia Rocket River Cheaters . . .the best show to come out of Dallas
*IF* he was to do something with this. . . HIT IT AND QUIT IT AND FORGET IT!! ONce or twice. . .then tap out . . But for the Record .. . . he should just act like he stupid and leave that alone until she unattached. . . and also . . JEALOUS *EX*BOYFRIEND is maybe more dangerous than JEALOUS BOYFRIEND!! Rocket River
see now thats what i call flirting. she ain't being rude to him and making comments about how he gained a few pounds right?
If the guy that my ex slept with was reachable at the time I found out (the affair was out of the city), I could have killed the guy. Once the insanity passed and I had a chance to reflect about the whole thing, I don't blame him. Although he was having an affair on his wife. Every dog has his day and only God decides what that day is.
that's the proverbial monkey holding onto one branch and won't let go til they get hold of a better one.
Whether I consider slavery is a choice I make. If it is permitted by the law, then I might consider it. I also think owning guns is morally wrong but since it is permitted by the laws, I think it is ok to own guns. I am all for passing laws to punish adulterers. But since we don't have the balls to pass such laws, that means we condone them. So why is it not ok for them to commit adultery?
