Okay guys... Think I've definitely decided on a few things. 1) Letter -I do think I want to say some things, she has had a rough time lately (father died, grandma dying) and I am also the type of person to hold emotions back sometime... so I think she will appreciate it if I make an effort on this. 2) The I love you from letters gathered from a newspaper or something... hmmm, maybe. I'd feel cheesy doing it, would it be too much? What about writing it out in Dutch or something? I'm feeling cheesy just writing this! Also are these things not usually related to serial killers in films?! 3) Definitely the Learn Dutch book.