Wow, I'd hate to be a chick you're banging. You equate being a single mother with being promiscuous? I take it you don't have a lot of respect for most women you have sexual encounters with.
I dunno, I think you are a lot closer to "Cloistered Nun" than you are to "Woman of Average Morals"... You and E, are doing what you think is best, besides people who think I know what I am talking about are generally, frequently dissappointed.
Wow...normally I agree with most of things you say, but thats the kind of thing that gets you punched in the face. Signed, Son of a single mother with a Dad that walked out.
There's no need to attack a person because he asked a question. Unless he was trying to be cheeky, in which case I agree with the previous replies. Either way, the answer is clear: no, they're not necessarily the same thing. I fear girls will use the born-again-virgin thing as a blank check to do whatever they want and then be like "that didn't count." Don't get me wrong, there are legitimate uses for the idea, but I think they'll be overshadowed by the abusers. This one girl wrote an open letter to "Nice Guys" in the school newspaper during undergrad in response to an article about how "nice guys" finish last. She basically said that girls want to run around and have fun while they're young and then they'll come back and settle down with the "nice guy," so don't worry ... yeah, that doesn't fly in my book. One girl doesn't represent three billion, but man did she paint a bad picture. Virginity is over-rated, but promiscuity makes you a wh*re (male or female). Sorry article chick (and those that share her sentiments), you're accountable for your actions regardless of what you claim later.
No, but I see what you are getting at. In the city I live in, there are a disproportionate amount of young, single moms. While they may have made some bad choices, it doesn't necessarily mean they were promiscuous. In fact, I've found more often it is the opposite (the promiscuous-types would rather have an abortion and go about their partying ways). While we are being mildly controversial, let me bring this up: Has anyone ever tried to hook up with a "reformed bad girl"? You think you have the hookup in the bag, then they spring it on you that they are trying to be a "good girl" now. The next thing you know, you're sitting there holding your johnson thinking about how easy it was for all the other guys to have her, but now she wants you to work hard for it.
Lol, some of the people on Planet Earth are something else. Once the cherry's popped, it's popped. End of story. There's no surgical do-overs or religious do-overs. It's gone. Just because you lost your virginity doesn't mean the end of the world. It's one guy or girl and it certainly shouldn't be a big factor in the rest of your life.
Yup. An extravagant, useless, and potentially risky surgery. Most forms of cosmetic surgery fit that description, so what do I know...
Just checking this thread out after a few days absence from Clutchfans. Some interesting comments but just wanted to point out that from the original article it mentioned that some of the women who have the surgery do it because they fear for their life or their safety if their family or arranged husband find out that they lost their virginity. In a situation like that I wouldn't fault them for trying to pretend they were still virgins.
Since you put it like that... It is sometimes hard to realize the freedoms and cultural changes our nation has, but I don't think my opinion will change for old 40 something women getting their cherry replanted just so it can be popped again.
