When wasn't he banned? Fatty is probably no more, sadly. I think most of us would welcome him back, but that is up to Clutch.
I don't see it being slutty at all...If I had to be in a relationship with a girl, i have to be attracted to her. I can't do the butch girls. No way.
You should make a trip to the Houston Museum of Natural Science to see the rare Corpse Flower blooming. It smells like rotting meat and serves as a good reminder that, "hey... things could be worse... at least I don't smell like rotting meat." http://www.hmnsmedia.org/CorpseFlower/
Just want to say thanks to all on this forum who have chatted with me and kept me sane over the past few months and days. You know who you are and I got love for you all.
Not all of the elite will be there... I'm in Austin. Good for you Moes. Keep your head up and things will turn out alright I'm sure.
I guess what I have learned over the past 48 hours is that bitterness and anger are not things to cling to, they help only with the distancing, but not with the healing. I am ready for wounds to heal, not to try and create new wounds that will only lead to more grief and possible regret. She did some things I do not understand, but that is the trouble with life, we can never understand how other people think, we want to have control of situations we have no control over. We want to feel a sense of happiness in the fact that we have something secure, something tangible, something we have made for ourselves that another would gladly share and never do anything to ruin, but we can never have that control so it is pointless to worry over it. There is no villain here but fear. Fear of uncertainty, of loneliness, of the future, fear drives us to do foolish things. I do not understand my own feelings and desires, how can you try and make somebody else fit your mold when you have no idea what that mold exactly is? It is so foolish to look back on past failures and try to place blame. This is nobody's fault. Life happened, that is all that took place. Love does exist. You find it when you need it. I have felt a lot of love over the past few days, but I am not the only one hurting and dealing with loss. Forgiveness is my parting gift.
There is no such thing as "love and lost" more like "Love and Learned"...you never really lose the person when something goes sour, you gain a whole new set of emotions and paradigms you didnt know existed until you learned from, and loved, that person. Good luck Moes. Before I met my fiance I was in a relationship with the same girl since 7th grade all the way till sophomore year of college...I thought my world was over until I met the person who gave me my real world.
This is beautiful, and I've been having a lot of similar thoughts lately. However, I don't think happiness comes from stability or certainty, but rather from appreciation of the present moment and excitement about future possibilities.
Stability and certainty are pipe dreams in a lot of ways, everything is in a delicate balance, life is constantly in motion, bringing about change and knocking us out of our comfort zones forcing us to adapt and survive. I agree with your definition of happiness.
