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[Breaking News] Anne Hathaway Loves Backdoor.... Sushi.

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by percicles, Sep 24, 2008.

  1. rocketsjudoka

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    Sex / relationship columnist Dan Savage has a term "GGG" (good, giving, generous) and his philosophy is good partners are willing to indulge each others kinks as long as the other partner is GGG back. While I certainly don't think men should be exploitive of women in regard to sex at the same time though I don't think a good relationship is one where one partner completely refuses to indulge in a particular fetish of the other, within reason. That seems to be a sure recipe towards an unhappy sex life and an eventual affair.
     
  2. Lynus302

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    Awesome posts.

    I also find Hmm's response to all this fascinating, and more than a little offensive. The only reason taboos such as this exist are because of the stigmas we place on them. If two consenting adults enjoy such a thing, more power to 'em, I say.
     
  3. Major Malcontent

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    There is no evidence that anal sex between consenting adults is indicative of anything other than a desire to engage in anal sex.

    Your attempts to pretend that it is somehow less than respectable indicates your own personal, somewhat narrowminded view of sex. You should admit to your shortcomings and stop pretending you are stating a universal truth instead of one persons opinion.
     
  4. Franchise3

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    I just want to clarify something: so are you saying that something that is sought out for purely pleasurable reasons is not respectable? Because I flog the dolphin pretty regularly for no reason other than pleasure (well, I guess if you wanted to you could make a psychological/physiological argument about maintaining a reserve of the most viable, healthy sperm). And believe it or not, women can derive pleasure, and even orgasm, through anal stimulation. Not only that, but the taboo nature of the act can heighten a woman's arousal that, when combined with other stimulation, can lead to powerful orgasms that are unattainable otherwise (that's physical and psychological pleasure for you right there!).

    Regardless, beyond it being a pleasurable physical experience for some women, some do derive mental/emotional/psychological rewards from it. Some women feel closer emotionally to their significant other by experimenting together and trying new things in their sexual lives. Other women can gain enjoyment by offering it because their significant other enjoys it and they in turn gain enjoyment from pleasing and giving pleasure to their significant other (not unlike performing oral sex - unless you consider that to be an act that is not worthy of respect).

    I'm just looking for some clarification.
     
  5. professorjay

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    So is doggy style ok? Or is that position to perverse? Oral? Hmmmmm?
     
  6. IROC it

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    This thread stinks.

    What's done behind closed doors is between those involved. If it's not for you, for whatever reasons, be it morals, or merely preference, then being open about it is the key. This is a discussion for the parties involved in the relationship, and those parties alone.

    But one cannot simply say that if they find it gross and "perverse" that no one else could possibly enjoy it.

    Me personally? I'd prefer any sex act to be done in the confines of marriage... but I'll not be naive and act like that's the only thing happening in the world.

    The only thing odd about this story is the need to run and tell the media. That, to me, is as pressing a story as who is gay, not gay, bi, etc. Is that news?

    THIS JUST IN... Your parents did more sexually than you'd like to imagine too... Your most trusted leaders in the public eye do too... Hey, your clergy have too... Your kid's teachers... Why? Human nature... since antiquity.

    These items are not news, they are as old as Noah. And while I've got personal views about every one of them, my opinions won't change the world's views or curiosity about the topic(s).

    But then, middle schooler mentality is prevalent these days, and feeding those base curiosities gets passed off as "reporting."

    Grow up people... yes, I'm staring at the prudes.

    Next.
     
  7. Major Malcontent

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  8. percicles

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    Gyllenhaal most likely gave her pointers.
     
  9. percicles

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    I like it rough.

    ...and some cuddling afterwards.
     
  10. London'sBurning

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    I'll just say this, if you're doing it right, there's no such thing as clean sex. Doesn't matter how you do it.
     
  11. Isabel

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    yeah, it is gross... as was said before, even in the missionary position, he's putting the thing he pees with into (near the thing she pees with) the thing where red stuff comes out at certain times of the month. Otherwise, since he is programmed to want to put it somewhere, he can put it in the thing she talks with, where she can taste all the bodily fluids, or the stinky poop hole.

    It's a wonder people even reproduce... honestly... flogging the dolphin is so much cleaner.
     
  12. Lil Pun

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    True statement.
     
  13. FranchiseBlade

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    I think there are plenty of guys who don't like anal. To some guys the anus just isn't appealing, either on what they do to others, or having others play with their own.
     
  14. Lil Pun

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    I'm one of them. I don't know if that makes me weird in the eyes of others but I really don't care. Anal sex has never peaked my interests, sure I've made jokes about it but it is not something I would actually want to partake in. I mean why would you want to stick it in there when there is a perfectly good vagina right by it?
     
  15. Pizza_Da_Hut

    Pizza_Da_Hut I put on pants for this?

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    A girl, hee hee, girl!

    The way I see it is that it's a matter of preference. Guys can expect whatever they want, what's the difference between that and a guy that totes that he expects a girl to be Rockets fan, or that his girl has a degree, or that his girl has to be barefoot and pregnant? The way I see it is that if a guy didn't make it with a girl, just because she didn't do the anal stuff, maybe he's an assface and should be single. Nobody will give you everything you want, you can't always get what you want, but if you try sometimes, you get what you need.
     
  16. Franchise3

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    You have a dolphin that you flog??? :eek:
     
  17. droxford

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    Well, I must say that I stick it in the pink, not in the stink.

    However...

    Though I cringe at the idea if it, I think it already has become mainstream.

    My grandmother cringed at the idea of oral sex. It's probably just a generational thing.
     
  18. The Real Shady

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    So I guess two girls one cup will be the norm in our next generation.
     
  19. Hmm

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    "the world is quite a bit bigger" "you live in a dry little cubicle of your own design" "ignorance of reality"..

    so.. the world isn't completely explored.. without anal sex...? to find someone not at all respectable for indulging in such a fetish.. is to be disconnected.. and seperate from reality...?

    my good man.. you are a truly pitifully lost cause.. probably didn't notice life waving.. as it passed you by a long time ago...
     
  20. Rockets2K

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    I'd be offended if I actually gave a crap what he thought. :D

    what two consenting adults do or dont do in the privacy of their relationship aint NONE OF YOUR DAMN BUSINESS.

    get your nose out of my sex life.
     

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