I'm actually sort-of with you on that. One of the main things that I find very attractive about someone like Patricia Arquette is that crooked tooth of hers..... but perhaps I've said too much.
I think stomach has to be in here somewhere. Nothing beats a big, saggy, bulbous.. er.. I mean a nice, trim, firm, sultry femme stomach. Britney Spears has an incredible midsection. It's her best feature. Skin should be included too. Oily skin with pimples? Ecchhh.. Soft, satiny smooth skin? Mmmmmm.... I guess overall face is the most important, though. Case in point: Geri Ryan has an absolutely incredible body. Great legs and ass, nice breasts, nice hair and nice eyes. However, her overall face is not really all that attractive to me, so I don't go gaga over her like I would, say, Shannon Doherty or Tiffany Amber-Thiessen.
shame she never shows it off. well i'm torn b/t eyes and overall face. i guess i gotta pick overall face b/c i do notice the whole thing and great eyes/bad face wouldn't be so great. buy eyes are definitely the best thing about the face. big doe like eyes. oh man. i could stare at em all day. going back to britney, i think she has the best face in the world for my tastes and i could look at her eyes (and certain other body parts) forever. its weird, big breasts are obviously awesome if you got em, but if you don't and you're face is great then its like i don't care. i'm ashamed as a man to say that if a girl is walking down the sidewalk with a great face and great rack that more often than not i focus on the face. so i guess i'm a face man.
That wasn't the situation posed. The question was which body part are you attracted to "the most?" Nowhere is it indicated that the rest is dogmeat. I dated a girl once who was mediocre on looks but her mind was fantastic. She was just flat-out exciting to be with. In the end, she was just using me to get back with her boyfriend. See how smart she was!
Exactly. For us, hearing what guys judge us on, sometimes it's depressing what we can't do anything about. I mean, you can certainly keep good hygiene and work out so you'll be in shape, but your face you can only do so much about. (unless you're really rich, vain enough to pay for plastic surgery, and willing to have your face in bandages for months first) However, there doesn't seem to be a consensus on what kind of face is "beautiful". I think a lot of it has to do with charm and the person's attitude. And, fortunately for us ladies, we can control those things. Personally, I prefer relationships that start as friendships, not where there is immediate sexual attraction or pressure to feel it. In that case, you'll get to know each other first and looks won't matter. Not saying we can't still stare at celebrities and beautiful people, but it will just feel less and less important.
There will always be shallow people -- male and female. It really doesn't concern me much, because I've always found that the guys who only care about looks hold no appeal for me. I dated men based on who they are as a person, because in the end, that's the only thing that stays true. Beauty fades, money gets spent, jobs are lost and perfect white teeth fall out. Only a person's inner beauty remains visible for their entire life.
but does it Mrs JB... people change on the inside just as much as they change on the outside. You almost have to change on the inside because of the things you experience, the things you learn, and because sometimes life demands it. Even inner beauty can change, and when it does, sometimes people drift apart. That's why I don't judge people who get divorced. I certainly don't advocate it, but sometimes you change on the inside just as much as you do on the outside.
Beliefs and habits change, but a person's true nature rarely does. A person who is good, kind and decent will, most likely stay that way their entire life -- even if they change religion, politics, etc... I don't judge divorced people either. There are times when two people simply grow apart. That's okay. I just happen to think that a person's inner beauty is a far more reliable predictor of future hapiness than the whiteness of their teeth. But hey, that's just me.
So, what you're saying is that Jeff is ugly, broke, unemployed, and has bad teeth, but you love him anyways, because of his "inner beauty"?
I was wondering who the first smart-ass would be to ask that. Actually Jeff is quite attractive, gainfully employed and has lovely teeth. But the reason I fell in love with him is because he was one of the kindest people I had ever met. He is also very intelligent, spiritually evolved and he has a fantastic sense of humor. It's not easy to find all that in one person! The truth is, to me he will always be attractive because I've seen how wonderful he is. Remember the line from "The Little Prince": "It is only with the heart that one can see rightly. What is essential is invisible to the eye." That about sums it up.
I remember as a young man I thought that the best way to fall in love would be to be, literally, blind. Then you wouldn't be distracted by aspects of a person that are not really that important in the long run.
I like overall face. I would say I like large, perky boobs, but really, if that's all there is to a woman, than it's not enough. Oh, and as I grow older, personality matters alot more.
I don't think I've ever heard a man use the phrase "perky boobs" before. Besides, the only way to get large perky boobs is for them to be fake. Large and perky don't usually happen at the same time, what with gravity and all.
Damn you shallow bastards! It's what's on the inside that counts. Unless you're gonna hit and run, then you can have a sweet lookin beeyotch. Do you ladies like the taint? hahahhaha that was disgusting.
