Isabel - I think you have to embrace your own sexuality. It's ok to be sexy. It's empowering. You should be able to enjoy your awareness of what makes you exciting and sensual and sexy. That's not always t*** and ass. Sometimes its a sexy voice, or a knowing smile, a happy laugh. Sometimes it is a great body turned to display great curves to best effect. Usually its an invitation to enjoy something the "object" knows is attractive. It's the knowledge that's the real turn-on. It's the wink and the smile. It's enlightenment. Watching someone work on a bike naked isn't sexy, because there's no dynamic, no play. And then theres "Bad naked" posture involved too, of course. If you watch a dancer do a passe line to a attitude, and enjoy the beautiful curve or angles of the body, I think it's most attractive because the dancer is involved in something sensual, and working with the self-knowledge of the creation of a line they know is beautiful. They seek it and enjoy it. That's fun to participate in. It's not fun to see someone's isolated, objectified mistakes - that's just a thing. There's no process. I personally think it's the process that everyone wants to be a part of, and participate in. Even a beautiful naked person has to be posed, to engage.
Thanksgiving weekend. Will any sex objects be showing up? (My best attempt at getting this thing back on track)
Well, ok, I will... since sexcharged continues to place you on the top of his comedian list based upon your "Clyde, Gimme De Ball" Nigerian Accent bit of the late 90's... Anyway, I forgot what this thread was about... oh, yeah, about Another Brother being the exception to the "myth"... right?
Isabel, it's a pleasure that you're here, and I say that disregarding the topic, as fun and interesting as it is. I really wish that there were more members of the female persuasion that posted on the BBS. It really gives a different perspective to the discussions, basketball or otherwise. Being married to a ardent feminist for 25+ years gives me some idea of how women look at themselves and their relationships with men. And I lived with her, off and on (more on than off) for 4 years before that. Thank goodness, I'm old enough to have had a lot of experience with other women before I met my sweetie. Back then, sex was almost a way of introducing yourself. (I'm only half kidding!) You couldn't get anything that couldn't be cured with a shot (thank goodness, I never needed one), and the pill was the birth control of choice. I'm glad I'm not the age I was then, now. I really feel sorry for the lifestyle, sexually, that people of all genders have to consider today, with the diseases that have cropped up. Anyway, great topic, and I may chime in with more later.
I'd like to come but only if you are going to get raunchy with a bunch of church people in the audience.
