She wanted to get on me on "What Not to Wear!" The horrors! I guess golf shirts and khakis I wear are just not her cup of tea.....
It doesn't matter what Fatty FatBastard says, 'cause with a nick like that, he's already a SeX ObJeCt... "Hi... I saw you looking at me from your table... my nick on the clutch bbs is Fatty FatBastard ... what's YOUR name...?"
OK, I can comment on this. Well, all females can, even those of us who aren't usually thought of as "hot". Because some guys just look at all of us like that. And the ones who get in relationships... well, you know what they're after. I was just thinking recently... what are we? Some people seem to see us as walking, talking... holes. With some curves to go with it. Sorry to be so blunt. Is it a conquest thing? Or can guys just not help it, due to their high levels of hormones? I still don't like being whistled at on the street, even though it's usually the redneck types who would do it to anything vaguely female. I try not to wear overly tight clothes or anything. On the other hand, being a sex object within the bounds of a relationship is surprisingly degrading. Obviously, you'll want to have some fun with each other, but when it seems like most of his emotions toward you are focused on that one thing...
The funny part is, I've not only shown women I've dated my BBS name, but I have a few friends that introduce me as "Poopy" when I've been out. It has never bothered them, so .
I remember an old post of yours stating that one of the main reasons you were attracted to your boyfriend was because: "He wanted to have sex with me. A lot." Have you had a change of heart, or did something specific happen to change your mind?
Most men are capable of acting somewhat boorish around ladies, especially when there are groups of our fellow men involved. "I like you, I think you are attractive and intelligent would you consider going out with me" puts us on the line, sets us up for possible rejection from the female object of our affections and ridicule from our fellow males. A comment like "Nice rack" or one of its many more subtle variations is easier on both levels, we know we are going to get rejected and we know our friends will approve. Course lately among my circle of friends since we have all learned our lessons the hard way, someone treating a woman crudely might get chided for "having no game". In relationships its trickier, when I have had girlfriends, I think they might have percieved I was all about sex. Because it isn't natural for me to go on at length about how much I love/need someone unless I have an amorous intent. In reality, when I am in love I think about someone all the time, in non sexual ways, but, at least when I was younger I had trouble expressing this verbally. Course these days most of the women I date have sex drives at least as active as mine (gotta love that mid 30's sexual peak...men start declining at what...16). But I have learned to communicate better. It may be that your bf doesn't verbalize well, see if you can see affection in his behavior and treatment of you. He may think of you constantly (sexually and otherwise), but just not have the words. Thats the best I can do for your question...mine is...why do some women see men as just dolls on a wedding cake, to me thats just as demeaning as being a sex object.
ask a woman. I dont think guys are sex objects as much as they would like to think. women have always been and always will be sex objects just because guys are such horn dogs. (not me of course) I think being a sex object might be pretty fun for awhile (as a guy) but everyone gets bored of doing the same thing at some point. - Hugh Hefner said something interesting (i got this from a different BBS post) "show me the most beautiiful woman in the world and I can find a man who is tired of sleeping with her" J
mid 30's sexual peak?? That's not good. I'm only 29 so it's just going to get worse. (Well, my husband might not say "worse" - in fact he should enjoy it - but it will probably encourage him to view me as an object.) On the other hand, maybe that makes us just right for those 20-year-old guys! (now, if they only found us sexy, instead of those skinny 18-year-old models)
They do that here, too??? I thought only US MEXICANS did that in MEXICO... while we're working... you know, construction, lawn mowing, etc.,... On the other hand, well, there's ANOTHER Sex Object...
I find any woman with 1483 (and growing) posts to a sports website insanley hot.. i'm talkin Will Ferrell hot
Actually... on second thought, I'm pretty sure it was the British girl who was banned briefly after mixing it up with the admins. Dimsie, I think?
I think Dimsie was Australian...her boyfriend was Screaming Rocket Jet, I believe...but I can't remember the thing you quoted.
I'll never really understand why some women seem to think like that. What is so degrading about being a sex object, within or outside the bounds of a relationship? If the guy desires you a lot, isn't that a good thing? Aah...women...so complicated . Oh, and I wouldn't mind one bit if all women regarded me as a sex object!
Yes, I think you are right...and she might have been British, but lived in Australia...or something like that. I think she got banned because she had an argument with Clutch, then she used her boyfriend's account to try to have the last word, but then the boyfriend's account got banned to. That's more or less what I remember.
