Back to square one....

hang in there. when you find a normal and single girl, latch on! there are alot of crazy boys (i've dated one) and girls out there.

 

Dude, you need to look at this chic for what she really is. I know you wish she was something else but she isn't. She is ugly inside. I'm sure with the way she got rowdy from the bar that she is probably an animal in the sack. This can make a guy start to see blurry. Thank God you found out what a crappy person she really is now instead of way later and possibly having kids involved.
I just like many others here know your pain and wish you the best. Be happy the rox are in the midst of a major playoff run and you have plenty to look forward to. Take care.

 

This makes me so sad.. I am sorry you are having bad relationship mojo.

Next chick must pass clutchfans approval process... and trying fishing in a new pool! The water is tainted where you picked this one up.

Also, know that you aren't alone, nearly all of us have had a psycho (or three) in their past. Just have hope that one day a normal one will love you as much as you love them.

I Believe!

 

cwebbster,

Sorry to hear this but as others have said this will probably be a blessing for you even though you might not think that right now.

Someone mentioned that she was/is probably "crazy" in the sack and that is something I have wondered quite a bit lately - why is it that the women who are batschit crazy are also amazing in the bedroom? Not that I am someone who is advocating that you have sex with every random girl you run across but if you find one that you like and she isn't an "animal in the sack" then you probably know that you have found a long-lasting love, lol.

 

There's plenty women who will take 2 random girls walking up to you as a reason to put the blame on you for that then maliciously attack you acting as an actual accomplice to the other jealous boyfriends already attacking you and proceed to land 15 harsh punches on you herself after a sweet and harmless innocent love song...
out there

 

To me, it seems like she's NEVER respected you man. First with the whole bar incident, and now this? It's clear that she viewed you as being either inferior, or irrelevant in the relationship. Either way, you don't treat people you respect in this manner, no matter what. In the end, it just seems like you guys aren't made for each other....you need someone who will appreciate the effort you put in. She needs someone who will always put her in her place.

 

After reading about the bar scene and seeing this thread, I wouldn't be surprised if she has been cheating on you since then, maybe even before. I feel like she had a guilty conscious and because of that she slipped the script on you and called you a "cheater" when it was probably her. She clearly treated you like a b****, and you should let her go. Good luck to you.

 

^^^ oops no edit feature ... flipped the script.

 

thoughts are out to ya, cwebb.
 

 

I'm sorry for you buddy.. what's done is done, time to look ahead and acknowledge your case is not special (the key is to avoid self-pity after the first night). Get into a "psh whatever Ima live my life" attitude.

Go workout intensely starting from tomorrow. Do HIITs/sprints if you're healthy enough. Once that adrenaline boost kicks in, the euphoria will numb your current problems. Lift weights too. Like others have said, 'splurge' on yourself!

Go out with your buddies, get hammered, play some Madden, if you have a MTB then hit the trails, etc.

 

You are such an ******* for ruining her affair.

 

Yeah...she's a lunatic.

Good for you that you see that there would probably never be a healthy relationship there and you got out before it was too late.

That and what Master Baiter said. What kind of jerkoff ruins the affair his fiance was having?

 

i hope she picked up the tab for the dinner

 

wow, the second she brought up the other guy's feelings, i would've excused myself from the table and walked out.

 

Dude, this is so classic. She knows she did wrong deep inside but, in her mind, she has to make you out to be a complete a-hole and worst boyfriend/fiancee ever, along with trashing the whole relationship, to justify what she did.

It makes her feel better to exaggerate and re-write y'all's history together so she make excuses as to why she was right in doing all of it.

I can't tell you how many times my ex-wife told me how horrible a husband I was, how emotionally abusive I was because I didn't hug her and tell her I love her enough, and that the marriage was sham from the start because I was just a smooth talker trying to just find a way to move out of my parent's house.

I wouldn't even bother giving her the time of day anymore because this is all she is going to do and she's just going to try to bait you into reacting to something so she can justify herself even more.

It's awesome your friends and family have been there to help you through this. Never have too much pride to not allow them to be there for you while you deal with this emotional roller coaster.

 

i got it from mine last week when i attempted to get some money she owes me and has been promising to pay me. i ask for $500 out of $5500 and she responds by telling me the reason she left was because of my inability to pay off my debts and it's not her responsibility to bail me out of my bad financial decisions.

ugh.

 

sorry to hear my man.. my fiance cheated on me as well and we have a child together... the only advice i can give you is once they cheated already, then they felt like it was okay to at the time then they will def do it again... give her the boot and be strong and not take her back, my ex attempted to get back with me a few times but i stayed strong and i am happy because every time she failed to get back with me, she went back to the man she cheated on me with.

Be strong

 

My ex was doing that with her ex-husband all the time. I'm surprised either of you expect to see a penny of it.

I'd call it a loss and move on.