yeah, me too. Never had anything near as exciting. Sounds like too many men can't keep their women's interest and satisfied.
My ex gf caught me trying to hook up with another girl on aol the day after i took her virginity. She then proceeded to stay with me for four years and be a manipulative b*tch as often as she could. The end.
Can't blame the guy always... a lot of it boilds down to the person who is cheating. If the girl doesn't want to be there she needs to speak up and leave... not cheat on the guy. Don't try to defend the actions of a cheater.
you really took my little statement and times it by 100. I'm not "always" blaming the guy, nor am I defending cheating.
Then what are you saying? That if a guy gets cheated on (though you don't endorse it), then most likely (though not always) they were not able to satisfy their women?
Ex cheated, found out when she got a random text message in the middle of the night while she was staying at my place. Kicked her out at 3am, moved on. Done.
Girl cheated on me while I was traveling. Her sister ratted on her. We broke it off. I cried for like 3 weeks straight. Crappiest vacation ever.
Once caught a girl I was with smoochin' on a guy when I showed up for something she knew I was showing up for! I confronted them as I got out of my car in the parking lot -- cheaters style but without the camera. The guy was clueless so I basically threw it out there that the girl had been with me less than 24 hours previous to demonstrate what a trick the girl was. I then ended all contact with her. I went on to have a successful career and better, more fulfilling life.
One time in college I was at a party with my girlfriend. Later that night I walked into my friends room and she was in there with another hot girl making out in their bras. She saw me and said i'm sorry babe, you wanna join us? I told her no and went home to cry and never talked to her again.
FIFY. As a measure of compensation to those of us who cared to read all the way to the end and whose expectations you betrayed as a result, I suggest you start plotting some sort of retaliation, execute it and then comeback here and post about it.
From my experience, if the woman is happy in almost every way, then they wont cheat. That doesnt mean the guy is necessarily doing something wrong, as some women can tend to have expectations that arent feasible (6 pack abs, great chef, million dollar home, etc...). However, in an overwhelming majority of the cases, happy gf = no cheating.
