How in the Hell is it your fault?? It's ok to feel the anger and anxiety, but at the same time you have to try hard to let it go. Focus on what matters right now, it's not the anger, it's your girl and your son. Try and do the things it's going to take to get all of you through this. Don't worry about the worst because that hasn't happened. Your energy has to go to the positive. Make sure you get all the answers and possible solutions from the doctors. Stay strong man, and know, this is not your fault. This is your time to shine as a man and father, do it, I know you can.
A similiar thing happened with our daughter who's 100% healthy. She is almost 15 now, looking for her 1st car and grounded after last week's "event". You need to remember to not stop praying once He gets you through this.
Take special care for your girlfriend, Verse. I will do my best to pray for your family... Best wishes, Samuel
Thanks again. She's stable (relatively) and he is doin well. Heartbeat is around 157 beats per minute. Kicking, turning, moving a lot. He's throwing a damn party in there! Lol.
Everything always works out fine. Have two kids. Had many others with kids around me and some birth problems. It always seems this way at first. Then when you see your baby everyday? You will know that everything was perfect no matter what happened during the pregnancy process.
I'm sorry for your loss man. It was mentioned earlier, but I want to reiterate that it's not your fault. More prayers coming your way in this time of healing.
Very sorry for your loss. I'm sure it's tough to do, but try hard to stay positive for both you and your wife.
