I like holding my girls hand. I instinctively offer it now when our hands are free. Also like to hold each other by the waist sometimes for a little. Then it becomes an inconvenience and end up just holding hands again. Never interested in the whole hand in pocket business
Are you THAT guy who complains about everything other people do that are completely harmless to you? If you are THAT guy, would you be offended if someone accused you of being insecure ?
I sit next to women because I have a hard time hearing. And no I'm not insecure. I don't grope her in public to show people I'm with her and I don't need her next to me all the time. So maybe THAT guy actually is someone with a good reason sometimes. Hater.
In a noisy place I'll sit next to my wife sometimes since I can't hear well in crowds, and I can't read lips yet, so sitting across means I'll hear nothing. Also, if we are going out with another person or couple, I prefer sitting next to my wife then next to someone else.
Wow, props to you...didn't think people still held out...I respect that... I like the idea, but I always come back to the conclusion that you're damned if you do and damned if you don't...like others have said, you have to be sxually compatible, period...Love can get you through a lot, but if either of you are not fully satisfied, it's going to be tough, IMHO...Plus once you introduce sx, ***** gets all complicated...i never get why but it does... Don't get me wrong, it'll be great to explore and learn together, but they'll come a point where one person will want more or want to try different things that the other person isn't comfortable with... Plus we're human, its our instinct to be with a lot of partners, survival of the fitest type of thing...good luck to you both...
Haha.. me and my girlfriend give eachother real hugs... but any other girl besides my girlfriend and I freakin own the sidehug... its an art LOL.
I'll often kiss her on the forehead if we're saying goodbyes, or sometimes on the cheek. It's really not about some strict set of rules or being legalistic, it's about guarding our hearts/emotions/bodies from the intimacy of sexual feelings.
I loved the front bench seat in the old days, whether it was a truck or a sedan. What tops a trip somewhere with your girl riding next to you on the bench seat, giving the oral pleasures, practically causing you to wreck the car, and leaving you both hot to get to the destination? I had some great trips to Paleface Park on Travis for the big campouts we had, smoke wafting through the campsite, a big fire blazing, with a pile of empty beer cans where everyone tossed them. Dark coming on, great music playing, swimming naked in the dark, dancing around the fire, Wild Armadillos blazing and passed around, and that sleeping bag waiting. Yeah, bench seats were groovy. In that sense, I'm "that guy."
I'm not trying to sound facetious or anything by asking this, but I've gotta know. Do you really feel like your urges are so uncontrollable that you can't even give each other a real kiss when you're saying goodbye? Or, even if it's just a little gesture of affection, you can't kiss each other without you getting your motor all revved up? The only reason I ask is because I've seen a LOT of people who rush into marriage because they've given themselves the same limitations as you, and they just want to hurry up and have sex. These people almost always invariably end up being unhappier in the end because they got married for all the wrong reasons. I'm not saying that you're making the same mistake, or even implying that you don't know what you're doing....I'm just genuinely curious about the thought process. You seem like you're happy, and ultimately, that's what's important.
Brett: [to Jules] Look, I'm sorry, I-I didn't get your name. I got yours, uh, Vincent, right? But-But I-I never got your... Jules: My name is Pitt, and your ass ain't talking your way outta this ****. Brett: [rising] No, no, no. I just want you to know how – [Jules motions him to sit down] I just want you to know how sorry we are that-that things got so ****ed up with us and-and Mr. Wallace. I-I-It, we-we got into this thing with the best intentions. Really. I never inte– [Jules shoots Flock-of-Seagulls, Brett recoils in horror] Jules: Oh, I'm sorry. Did I break your concentration? I didn't mean to do that. Please, continue. You were sayin' something about "best intentions"? [silence] What's the matter? Oh, y-you were finished? Oh, well, allow me to retort! So, allow me to retort. An orgy implies more than 2 people involved in whatever pleasure was going down. That was not always the case.
I have a friend who's been committed to the no sex/no kissing thing since high school...she wants her first kiss to be at the altar (which makes absolutely no sense to me, but I digress...). She just got engaged and is going to be married in October...to a guy she first MET not four months ago. See...that just looks like a recipe for disaster to me, but to each their own, I suppose. If you're going to go that route though, I'd hope you don't rush into marriage because the urge feels uncontrollable. I personally know three people who made that mistake (and to add to the situation, they had kids right away, which definitely complicated things) - two got divorced within 3 years, and one is stuck in a miserable marriage. If you can make it work, awesome. I don't mean to be a downer...my best friends' parents waited and they just celebrated their 25 year anniversary. Everyone's different.
Yesterday me and my Girlfriend were in Journeys, she was looking at shoes, sperrys to be exact. I sat down near where she was looking and one of the guys came up to her and said "So your looking for sperrys? If you buy today I'll even give you my employers discount" she took the hint and responded "No thank you, but maybe you should try your discount line on someone else" i looked up and chuckled while I nodded my head the guy glanced at me not knowing she was my Girlfriend and replied "Well your the most gorgeous chick that has walked in today, can I have your number" she laughed and said "no sorry you are too short and maybe you should ask my Bf for it" he looked at me and gave a nervous grin and walked away. I ended up buying her shoes and while at the cash register, I asked the guy so are you going to give us that discount, he gave it to us, and we both laughed as we walked out. Im not the jealous type and have so much trust in my gf as she does for me as well, but there's guys who get really defensive when a guy asks their gfs if they need help or try to hit on them while you are standing next to em. Are you THAT guy?
For some reason, whenever I read a post from Deckard talking about sex/romance etc., I think of this guy talking about his LOV-AH: Spoiler
