Heh. Well thats just probably because both of us were/are kind of hands off people. Seriously man... did we ever even in our "omg I <3 u" first few months stage ever sit on the same side of the booth together? I mean I always found that to be pretty lame. I always prefer to be facing somebody at the booth, makes for better conversation. And I never sleep all "entwined" that **** is way too sweaty, I actually prefer to sleep with no human contact, save maybe an arm on the waist or whatnot. I'm a picky sleeper.
I think this makes perfect sense. Why wouldn't you want to look at each other while conversing? I have a guess but it involves hidden extremities. I think that's what this thread is about. Guys and girls who like to feel each other up.
I'm definitely not THAT guy. I've always thought it was weird seeing couples sit on the same side of the booth. It's not very good for conversation.
I know its not a popular opinion here or in this counry for that matter... but us not kissing has more to do with our choice not to have sex. We think it should be reserved for marriage (in summary, we're Christians who are very active in their faith). When I kiss her on the lips, which if we are alone often leads to making out... its fore-play.. its getting my body ready for sex. So we have set the boundary to not kiss eachother on the lips because either it ends up being a really frustrating tease for both of us, or we do things physically which we should not be doing. Honestly.... it sucks... but it will be worth it either way in the future.
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I remember when I used to think that was true. Your wedding night is going to last 12 seconds, and she's gonna be in a world of pain. So get ready for that.
Haha.. you're probly right about 12 seconds.. but luckily for us at that point our relationship will be about SOO much more than sex.. plus we will have the rest of our lives to enjoy sex together
he's seeking something more intimate, i think. which is great. i couldn't have kept from kissing, though..far more willpower than I have/had. it does remind me of Forgetting Sarah Marshall,though... of course, all things remind me of that movie.
You Fool!! 2012 is upon us!! j/k...I understand completely. Sounds like a great commitment to God and your significant other.
My girlfriend and I do all that annoying stuff.....and I love it. I'm just kidding we don't do that kind of stuff........ 'cause I don't actually have a girlfriend.
If you can hold out... you are a better man than I. Respect, sure. But I think there is some merit to finding out how sexually compatible you are with somebody else before you marry them. But I suppose sex complicates things, a hell of a lot... either way. meh.
I'm not going to question your decision, it sounds like you are a very nice and committed couple. The problem would come in if you rush the marriage to get to have the sex. I would think that even if you believe pre-marital sex is a sin, it is certainly a lesser sin than marrying someone you weren't 100 percent sure about in order to get to have sex with them, then having to choose between the unpleasant alternatives of divorce or being unhappy.
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