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Are You a High Value Man?

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by Xerobull, Mar 14, 2022.

  1. REEKO_HTOWN

    REEKO_HTOWN I'm Rich Biiiiaaatch!

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    If you look at the higher education rates for women vs men and asume society is moving towards even more non physical labor and tech then Matriarchy is coming back.

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  2. jiggyfly

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  3. jiggyfly

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    Yeah you are right I guess they would be called feminista's, but they seem to don't want men in their lives instead wanting a man to be subservient or pining for someone out of their league.
     
  4. Rocket River

    Rocket River Member

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    Define "Settle'?
    What does a woman "settling" look like?

    Rocket River
     
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  5. jiggyfly

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    I can't really give you a definition, but it's you can do better but at least I am not alone.

    It is usually a woman that has a great job and appearance with a deadbeat boyfriend.

    Britney and her baby daddy or that Indian dude.

    Brittney Murphy and her husband, just to name a few high profile ones.
     
  6. Rocket River

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    I think the thing is. . . . meanwhile
    A man in a similar situation is not seen as "settling"
    The Professional man marrying the girl on fries is never thought to have "settled"

    I believe in equality but "settling" for a woman is different than "settling" for a man
    Which is part of the problem

    No one gets everything they want

    One of the things KS says is
    Women decide who gets to have sex
    Men decide who gets married

    Incels = men who cannot get sex
    Old Maids = Women who cannot get married

    Both of them are not happy about their situations . . but one is just louder about it
    In both cases I think their needs to be a caveat

    Incels = men who cannot get sex WITH THE WOMEN THEY WANT!!!!!!
    Old Maids = Women who cannot get married TO THE MEN THEY WANT!!!!!!
    i.e. I guess they refuse to "settle"

    Rocket River
     
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  7. jiggyfly

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    This makes ense but if the girl on fries is a banger nobody cares what job she had.

    If the girl on fries and not very attractive, she is **** out of luck.

    I am not saying men can't settle or that's it's exclusive to any sev, but there is a reason the term biological clock is only used for women or that there is a term for an older unmarried woman OLD MAID, men don't have the pressure to be married at a certain age.

    Men don't have a derogatory term like that if they are not married, and women can't just date around like men, or they are called fast or sluts.
     
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  8. Houstunna

    Houstunna Mr Graphix
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    Decent point

    Explain what makes a woman "not very attractive"

    True, and the reason is biology. Hence, biological clock. Older men have a greater chance of producing healthier babies than older women. Flip side, younger women have a greater chance of obtaining sex than younger men. Older women too as well, even if children aren't really an option

    How many women have you heard called losers, scrubs, or dusty?

    Women can date around like men, many cases moreso than men. Then sell purity to men as if it never happened. Ask most women their body count (although I wouldn't) and the answer will be low-balled

    Day's end, women are born with inherit power/value, and I'm not mad... just stating reality. Men need to work and earn their power and it's great for those who can. No pain no gain
     
  9. Rocket River

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  10. jiggyfly

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    Are you serious?

    Woman have all kinds of names like that.

    They definitely are called losers or dusty and ratchet.

    Day's end Men are also born with more inherit power /value are you really trying to say the don't?

    It's a reason why daughters had to be married off with a dowry or were killed at birth because they were not male and that they could not vote and could not be landowners and could not divorce without the consent of the husband.

    Do you actually think women don't have to work to earn their power?
     
  11. Houstunna

    Houstunna Mr Graphix
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    I believe what I believe but am willing to be enlightened if retorts show bearing overall

    I've never heard a woman called a loser or dusty... ratchet.. yes. Fat.. yes. Ugly.. yes

    But I've heard women say those same about men many times

    Both sexes are born with certain power. I'm just saying women's requirements to exercise said power takes less effort... much less

    When women couldn't own land without a man, which sex died in wars?

    When daughters needed dowries to marry, who paid the fee? Were most men able to pay? Men weren't born able to pay. It had to be earned. What work did the daughters earn before the fee?

    In the end, I still love women. Just stating the hypocrisy
     
  12. superfob

    superfob Mommy WOW! I'm a Big Kid now.

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    Yeah, those nice bodies don't happen without work and willpower.

    Meanwhile dad bods are pretty acceptable from couples I've seen.

    Short story is everyone has challenges, but the nobody will have sex with me complaint is pretty low to me.
    Which sex were raped and killed or worse forced to raise their rapist kids after wars were lost?

    Who else was supposed to pay if women weren't allowed to own land, have a job? That's like saying who had to pay for slaves food and clothes, and saying how good slaves had it.

    Sorry man, but you have some really negative thoughts regarding women. It's true that historically, men would get paired a woman just for a woman to survive, especially in a patriarchy. You may think that's some built in natural order, but humans have certainly evolved past the sabertooth tiger days.

    Not all women are gold diggers. If you want to attract normal women, my advice is, develop interests, make friends / build your existing friendships. Be happy alone so you don't give off desperation vibes. Handle your ****/bills, live within your means.

    If you think you can only attract women by making X amount or wearing X clothes and driving X car, I guarantee the only types you are attracting are the women you are complaining about.
     
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  13. Roscoe Arbuckle

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    Fascinating. Thanks for sharing...
     
  14. Roc Paint

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    High value and high-quality
     
  15. Houstunna

    Houstunna Mr Graphix
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    I agree with everything you said

    The point you missed about dowry is... How many men could afford it? How many men were alive after dying in war to afford it?

    If I'm wrong, school me. I don't mind learning new information

    I'm thinking only a minority of men were able to pay dowry. Maybe the payment depends on the level of woman.... thus level of man
     
  16. jiggyfly

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    All fathers had to pay some kind of dowry in those times, if they could not their daughters would not be married or it would have to paid over time.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dowry

    If fathers could not marry their daughters off, they would be no better than servants and have zero station in life.

    I appreciate that you want to learn, I have no problem directing you to different things.



    Dowry's are still a thing in India.
     
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  17. Xerobull

    Xerobull ...and I'm all out of bubblegum
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    TLDW, disappointed that the accent wasn't from the Indian subcontinent.
     
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    Kevin Samuels died. kind of crazy.

     
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  19. Xerobull

    Xerobull ...and I'm all out of bubblegum
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    Wow
     
  20. TimDuncanDonaut

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    ... When female celeb hosts got hit on by SNL male cast members.

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    All the female said the relationship started after meeting them on the show. Honestly surprised Lorne Michaels hasn't been hit with work harassment lawsuits yet. His male cast members are horn-dogs, has a history of going after the female guests.
     
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