Why don't you just have sex with ur gf? Better yet, why don't you see if maaaaaybe your gf has some interest in taking some classes to become a semi-decent masseus? I don't think it's cheating, but cheating is always the highest standard between two people in a relationship. Anything else will screw up a relationship.
I would consider any form of sexual gratification with another person cheating. If you're in an open relationship and your SO says it's okay then have at. But it clearly sounds like you're not. She said no, and if you went ahead and did it, that would be cheating in my book.
Well, this thread surely didn't have a happy ending. I was having fun. Oh well, guess I'll see if the wife wants to "wash the dishes"...
twice the effort... yet lesser the gains... a crashing "fail" from an enthusiastic reach at a "win"... to which no one notices and no one is amused... so, you're a "nubcake"... I've often wondered the true definition of this internet vernacular... thank you for that...
What about head? I have no feelings for the girl giving head. She is just finishing what she started.
I personally would never cheat on my fiance. I would go to strip clubs with my guy friends and she has also expressed that she would go but that is as far. The only happy ending I need other then the one from my fiance... <object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/CzUv5_YFhPI&hl=en_US&fs=1&"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/CzUv5_YFhPI&hl=en_US&fs=1&" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object>
yes, of all the recent posts here.. that one's clearly the most evident of moping/whining... you people are too self-defeating... take all the fun out of it..
equally ostensibly evident... why just look at the disparity in emotional effort and invest between our two posts... one's clearly an indifferent brush off while the other is... oh, wait... see what I mean...?
no, use the "fade-out" technique, slowly distance yourself from the girl and when the timing is right, tell her you'd like to be friends and apologize for something, anything. then she probably won't hate you, and you probably could still have a decent friendship thereafter.
Simple standard for determining if something is OK: would you then tell her about it. If the answer is yes, do it, and then tell the GF you did it. If the answer is no, don't do it. If you can't face the music, then you shouldn't be doing it in the first place.
