I play quite a bit - I usually shoot around the low 80s because of a crappy short game. Sharpstown and Bear Creek have been mainstays for me.
I'm probably the worst golfer there is that plays as much as I do. I have a membership at a mountain course that keeps my handicap up. I play there on the weekends. I have a limited pass to a fairly easy course in the valley where I usually shoot in the low to mid 80's. I also played in the men's league this summer at a fantastic new course that is PGA tour quality and will probably have some events in the next couple of years. I love to play, but I would never say the game is relaxing!!