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Any good ideas on how to be romantic??

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by Drewdog, Jun 9, 2005.

  1. tierre_brown

    tierre_brown Member

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    Why not "re-live" your first date? (That's the only thing I had to add besides pay attention to her, touch her, reassure her; basically, do the little things for her).
     
  2. AroundTheWorld

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    :D

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    Exactly... plus - this sounds like the whole world always has to revolve around HER (speaking generically, not about Isabel) and HER only - what does she do for HIM? Does she do romantic things for HIM or is she the one who always expects to get things done for HER?


    Baqui...get out of RocketsPimp's account NOW! ;)
     
  3. Isabel

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    Very good point. In an ideal world (or my ideal world), this would be the responsibility of both partners. They would both do these things for each other.

    In my limited experience, if you do romantic things for a guy, especially from the start, he takes you for granted and won't even bother to do this for you. Eventually you quit bothering. Hopefully it doesn't have to be like this for everyone, but I have two (cynical) theories right now: 1) if you're a girl, don't be romantic, don't show too much interest, because if you do, then the guy's not going to care any more, just like that. Or 2) people who are idealistic and romantic about relationships always end up with partners who just don't care.

    If you are a romantic type and your partner isn't, even after you talk about it and tell them what you want, then the relationship is probably not going to be worth it in the long run.
     

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