Believing in Nigerian princes is probably a better long-term strategy than believing in Antoine Dobson LOL. nice points! Hey, texxx, I own the company you work for and I fire you. says me. you better believe. If you want, I can contact a reputable news source like the Onion, and get it down in paper.
It really hasn't been until recently that someone's sexuality has needed to be so defined. It used to be back in the day that if you had sex with a man, you had sex with a man and if you had sex with a woman you had sex with a woman and really it was no big deal. From there, it was just that person's preference to which sex they liked better or preferred more of. I'm talking about in our Founding Father days here. Nowadays we're so concerned with what someone else is when really whatever anyone else chooses doesn't in any way have any impact on what your sexuality is unless they're coming onto you of course, whether you identify yourself as gay, straight, bi-sexual...whatever. I think the dude is probably bi-sexual personally but really who gives a ****?
Please define what you mean by "be gay"? Engage in homosexual activity, or feel sexually attracted to people of the same gender? Obviously the former is a choice, in the same sense that anybody choosing to be sexually active is making a choice. And the latter is not a choice, just as none of us "choose" to be attracted to certain people versus others.
Offer proof of what? I'll repeat the question. Please define what you mean by "be gay". Engage in homosexual activity, or feel sexually attracted to people of the same gender?
I'm not here to refute your points, tbh. They're so absurd that if you consider them to be points, that's quite sufficient. I'm here to bump the thread so this stays up forever, while delivering a light touch of well-intentioned, friendly mockery (like when your locker buddy thinks infinite reps of situps will get them a six-pack).
You keep saying it is a choice. Are you implying that you have the ability to consciously decide that you want to be aroused by either man or woman? Have there been times in your life when you have seen a man and consciously decided to be aroused by him?
I suppose its possible that some people can choose to be attracted to someone, or they can choose to suppress that attraction. It may require forcing oneself to ignore certain attributes, or focus in on certain attributes. Maybe over time, attraction between two people can grow, and so we can choose to cultivate an attraction in that way. I think there are probably lots of "layers" to sexual attraction. At its most fundamental level, its beyond our conscious control. There may be levels at which we do have some measure of control, with varying degrees of effort. And some people may be better at controlling it than others.
I don't understand you fascination with proof on this. The proof is completely based in personal experiences. I have always been more attracted to redhead women. I don't know why. I didn't make a conscious decision to be attracted to redheads...it just turned out that way. Are you attracted to a certain type and not to others? Did you choose to be? If it was not a conscious choice and just happened to be, logic would dictate that the same phenomenon happens when a gay person is attracted to members of the same gender.
I'm pretty sure I saw Antoine Dodson hooking up with Marcus Bachmann when I was driving through the Montrose area the other day.
Ever since bigtexxx started hanging out on the black hair media forums he's just breaking all kinds of important news.