Probably not your intent, but this post reeks of chauvinism. It takes two to tango, and (according to the guy in question) the women involved made the decision to abort, not him.
Exactly. That will suck and might drastically change the already strained dynamics... Yucky situation.
where did i say people can't judge anymore? you're taking his posts and making assumptions off of the word lucky and turning him into texas fight -the serial abortionist who will warp our daughter's clean mind. why are you assuming it went down that way? of course i'd be upset if someone did that to my daughter, but there's no evidence in his post that it did go down that way or that he even pressured the women to have abortions when they didn't want them. of course, i guess there's a chance i'm defending a complete jerk so who knows. and that analogy would be appropriate if there was 0% chance of a condom working or if he wasn't using anything at all.
I thought this was about a new PS3 game or something... I keed... IMHO, you should never marry for the sake of saving face or for a kid...If you're un-happy now, you'll be that much more so later on...could you grow to love each other, sure... Smartass me says you should just tell her that you don't want to marry her and that you'll take responsibility, and that you don't like her as a potential wife... Romantic me says you should propose to her in front of her dad and that you want 10 kids...You love her so much that you'll get her a PS3 for xmas... Updates?
I'm just glad that it only took four pages for someone to make an analogy between a vagina and a pool of hungry piranhas.
trust me, I was in a very very simalar situation and I decided to get married. after a year and 8 month marriage (another kid) and going on a year and half divorce and custody battle. DON'T get married unless you are 110% sure you want to marry this girl. It is not your fault for what she does. That is on her constious. Also about 6 grand in lawyer fees. And that is cheap.
I went to her house and told her I wanted her to move back in and live with me. I told her I'll take care of her and the baby. I told her we could get married. I told her I'll sell my cars and do whatever it takes. Then she dropped the bomb on me. She aborted the baby yesterday.
No consideration for you, eh? I think you're better off now, sir, knowing she made a decision like that without even TELLING YOU. I don't mean "asking" what you wanted, I mean not even a phone call about what both of you created. Wow. I feel for you, man, I really do.
i'm so sorry to hear that...take care of her and yourself...this will stay with her a long time and hurt her a lot so treat her well...
