Well, like OP said, he's only reminiscing whenever she randomly gets brought up. We've all had good memories before, its no different from something like childhood nostalgia. Outside of forcing amnesia upon yourself, you can't just forget about someone you once loved.
Nope, the OP was about to pop 72 vicodin while sitting in an idling car inside a closed garage before he was told to "man up".
LOL! That got a giggle out of me. I shall enjoy the rest of my day knowing I helped a man step down from the ledge. Sorry. With my friends and crap like this I'm the "get over it guy," not the "Aww shucks man, I'm sorry" guy. We both have our roles.
Didn't mean to diminish what you did for your friend. We all need friends like that. I just don't think the OP falls into that category. He actually seemed to do what we all think we should do when something like that happens, he just still thinks that one was awesome. Nothing wrong with a little blues and whiskey every once in a while.
Here's the problem. Every time you think about her all you think about is the good things about her and the good times you had together. Didn't you say she dumped you? That's ALL you should be telling yourself every time you start thinking about her now. So why in the world would you continue to torture yourself about a girl who didn't want to be with you? You need to be telling yourself, "screw that B***h". Sounds like too much time has gone by that when you think about her now you've forgotten how much pain she brought you by breaking up with you. Life is about the choices we make. She made the choice to move on without you. Accept it and move on. If you want to find love again it's simple. Make the choice to do so. Stop sleeping with all of these girls because I feel pretty confident what's going on with you after you do is you think these girls are whores and who in the world would want to fall in love with a w****? Be willing to put yourself out there again (mentally NOT physically) and get to know a girl you seem to be connecting with. I also guarantee you that you've put this girl who broke up with you three yrs ago on a pedestal, and you compare EVERY girl you meet with her. And in your mind they all far short, because you haven't really given any of them a real chance. You also need to remind yourself that all of these girls who are falling short have ONE thing in common. None of them dumped you. Do yourself a favor and take this girl off the pedestal you put her on and start conditioning yourself that EVERY time you think of her from here on out you STOP it right there by reminding yourself that this girl DUMPED you and brought massive pain in your life. If you're going to be thinking about her you might as well deal with the facts and not something that you've built up in your mind based on MAJOR omissions!!
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You were very eloquent in the first paragraph, but your slam could use some work. 6/10, would offend again.
What's so good about her that you think is irreplaceable? I've lived long enough to say that hot women don't run out. What's limiting most men is that they're not attractive/rich enough to attract them. But if you are, if she has a dink, let her go and try and try again until you find the one.
I have another heartbreak, don't want to start a new thread. Was seeing a girl for 2 weeks, she just broke up with her long time boyfriend. She just learned yesterday she was 6 weeks pregnant. Time to change my number and run.
Damn. Backing out of the picture seems like your only option at this point. I guess just be glad that she was so far along into the pregnancy so there is no doubt as to who's the daddy.
not sure if you read the OP, but I don't think his issue is about not getting laid with "hot wimmin" , and that the reason he is so obsessed with his lady is simple because she is a "hot wimmin".
