This is one of the most stupid things I've ever heard. Do you also know how many people in the world live together without being married?
Sigh - read the whole damn post. As I said, I don't care how he lives his life and yes I am completely aware of that (my sister lived with her husband for about 6 months before getting married which didn't sit well with my dad). It's Lil Pun's life and he is not wrong for wanting to do that. I wouldn't choose that as I believe that marriage is still worth something but I understand people who don't subscribe to that same view. I am just asking for him to be careful on how he talks to the gf's cousin. His initial post came across very judgmental to me (and don't get the wrong idea, Baiter, I am not an advocate for affairs either). I think he can make better progress and resolve this situation, peacefully, if he doesn't come across as judgmental.
i apologize in advance for the crudeness of this question but is the cousin cheating with another female?
Remember it is two women having an affair, not a man and a woman. I am not saying that makes it worse or anything just stating the fact. She lived with her husband before they were married as well so I don't really think she could pick on me for that. I am staying away from them. Not trying to confront, meet or anything else.
She doesn't watch my daughter anymore and will not, if I have anything to say about it. People just asked me how I felt about it and I let it be known and they thought I was unreasonable.
i thought that is what was implied but i was just looking for clarity i have nothing to add, just wanted to solve my curiosity
I thought that might be the case but I couldn't really tell so of course, I assumed it was a heterosexual affair. At any rate, I think you have the right approach - staying away would be the best thing that you could do.
No, not at all. My girlfriend's sister is a lesbian and we hang out with her and her SO damn near daily and many of their friends. I don't have a problem with that lifestyle at all, if that is what it is referred to. That isn't my issue but the cheating and lying and other deceitfulness is my issue.
