That is really good. Thanks for spitting that out! Why would we not want to be good neighbors? You missed one opportunity. Are you going to miss out on the make-up opportunity? Too bad if so... You're not obligated but if we only do what we are obligated to do, it is a dry world. Now I'm going to go get laid.
Possible that she is not really your neighbor and at her actual residence, she could not have her neighbors sign because she has loud parties? Don't you love that you cannot even have a fence installed in your own back yard without being called out?
So every time I've gone up to a neighbor (or one has come up to me) where they don't necessarily see me coming, I'm an ###hole?
Yea, we actually wanted the fence before she came out of nowhere. We have a pool installed this summer so the privacy/security issue was something we wanted to do since there are other neighbors that have children. I really, really don't think she actually lives there. Never see her. It could be she is staging that address as her own for her personal gain, but I wouldn't be sure, she did have access to the house, but that was it (I have seen the older black woman, and hispanic household members multiple times. I surely NEVER seen her kid playing in the backyard. That is/was odd to me. .
Were you molested as a child? Abused? If either of those are true then you shouldn't consider yourself a jerk for getting an adrenaline rush when a person walks up to you.
Let me clarify this. If you are a stranger living next to someone, and you go into their unfenced yard while they are working and come up to them from behind, only to ask for something, yes, you are an *******. Neighbors would probably say to each other "DAMN, you scared the **** out of me. What's up?"
I just don't see it that way. If one of my neighbors that I do not know 'surprised' me while I was out in the yard, I would not consider them anything derogatory.
all kinds of owning up in this thread. We got droxford the puppy killer, ROXRAN the d-bag neighbor, and Talons getting owned per usual.
Roxran, I'm glad you're putting up that fence. At least your needy neighbors will now come around to the front door to ask for whatever they need.
i'm glad i don't live next door to either one of you. no wonder this country keeps getting ****tier and ****tier.
LOL. Yeah. Because I don't want anyone trespassing into my back yard, this country gets ****tier and ****tier. Get out much?
Hell, ROX, you have a pool without a fence to keep kids out of it? That's a bigger deal than the original reason for this thread, IMO. Fence that sucker before a tragedy happens. Like yesterday.
the same type person who gets offended and scared by someone asking them to sign a piece of paper saying they don't have loud parties.
Really? This type of person is making this country ****ier and ****ier? You, of all people, are saying this type of person makes this country ****ier and ****ier?