Friendzone for you. Move on. Don't tell her you want a relationship and don't stick around and stay in the friendzone. Just slowly detach from this beotch and don't ever admit you are hurt/disappointed in how things turned out. Just slowly make the AIM conversations shorter and shorter and act distracted when you speak to her or are around her. She needs to feel what it's like to be the backup plan but make sure that you don't let her back in if she suddenly throws herself at you. That's just her womeness making her chase something she can't have but never really wanted. If you let her back in she'll just toss you to the side once she knows she has her claws in you again.
Treat her indifferent for a while. She will either want to hook up or she will go away. She knows she can walk all over you now.
Nothing wrong with being the rebound here...you should get her drunk and bang her, then act like it never happened...now she's friendzoned...
How do you make out for 4 hours without doing anything else? If anything that's why you're her backup option, you don't inspire passion from her.
See, here is the thing that is what I guess I am truly getting at. I mean I'm trying to figure out why someone could suddenly lose interest. I do sometimes make offensive jokes, and I did make jokes about her religion which she didn't seem to care for much, but she didn't say anything about it. But I didn't think much of it then and still don't think that is the issue. I guess, I'm trying to figure out if someone would be turned off or lose interest by something said (like an offensive joke). Like would a chick suddenly give up all the time we put in together chatting and texting over a span of 4 months. I honestly don't even care anymore if I would be able to hook up with her once again or have a relationship, but rather why someone would just disappear or lose interest. She stopped talked to me well before she met Mr. 3 Weeks (according to mutual friends).
Well you didn't mention that earlier. If you said something or did something that she disapproved of or found offensive, then you very well have your answer. Women are weird like that, but you never know what might offend them and how deeply. I dated this one girl for 4 months and never imagined that she would break up with me. One day I joked with her on something and she had this look on her face of "What are you doing?" About a week later, she called me up and told me that things wouldn't work out between us. I was relieved but pissed at the same time because I was glad that I didn't have to worry about hurting her but blindsided at the same time as I never expected her to be the one to end the relationship.
this conundrum can be all fixed in a matter of seconds. simply tell the chick u want to hammer her like a nail thru monterrey jack. either she agrees, either she thinks about it for awhile and eventually gets back to u with a yes, or she gets pissed throws a girl tantrum and u never have to hear from her again. what u don't want to do is waste your valuable time pondering and angling for this one broad who may just wanna be 'friends.' if u need a friend then get a dog.
Play the "I don't give a crap" angle. Start flirting with chicks in front of her and tell her how hot other chicks look. If she's like most girls... vanity and insecurity will kick in.
Be honest with her. If she doesn't respond in kind to your satisfaction, move on, but try honesty first.
Did this and it got the job done. Unfortunately, I started falling for her afterwards ...then it was back to the friendzone. Girls drive me crazy sometimes.
Does every QB who plays/played for the Texans smoke a bowl before they get their NFL profile pictures taken?
How the hell can you make out with someone for 4 hours and not have sex? How is that even possible? You talk about missing your chance. Sounds to me that you had a perfect chance and failed miserably.
Not worth it, either hit it or move on. Chicks in dental school hallucinated by lidocaine that their expectation is nothing short of a MD. She prob. just using you for emotional support.
