Pwned for sure. Solution: get ripped in 4 weeks and plow the hottest indie chicks at the scene show. Or, wallow in a month-long downward spiral in which your nights find you cuddled up on your sofa in a blanket watching the history channel and eating bucket after delicious bucket of Cookie-Dough Ice Cream.
Thanks for the input everybody. What I find even stranger in the whole situation, is the fact that when I was overseas we used to talk alot (like I mentioned in the original post). But as soon as I return we rarely talk. I learnt from a mutual friend that she only met the guy like a month ago in October. I returned back from overseas in September. So something isn't equating properly in my mind as to why she would suddenly lose interest.
Maybe she felt more comfortable talking to you when she knew for a fact that a relationship was impossible because you were overseas. Friendzone.
I voted for "you still have a chance" since thats what you want to hear. Since Stevie Ray could have seen this coming back in October, what is the real purpose of pouring out your heart?
Just say that you're not interested in a relationship, you just want to f***. A. She'll be offended and not want to speak with you anymore. Which is what you're going to end up doing anyway. B. She interested. Win Win.
You are temporarily friendzoned, but not permenantly. Be really nice to her, and give her some attention, but not necessarily romantic. Then after you've shown her, how awesome you could be, step back and let her see how it is with you making only minimal contact with her. This will give her time to reflect and think about you and make the decision on her own.
Remember... rise, rise, rise, keep it leveled, rise a bit more, then bring it to the highest point. The level at which you enjoy it together is the most important part of it. Get there together, enjoy it, then both come down to a resolution together. There's no point in only YOU enjoying that moment of excitement.
You still have a chance. Work the sympathy angle by telling her you have cancer, or go all out and write a play about her. Almost worked for me.
Nice! Or... how about i slip i through the window at night and while she sleeps i slowly ease myself into her...a frame bang
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