Yeah, usually I’m much more sympathetic to people who ask for help on this bbs, but dude…..you are ****ing crazy. A fake myspace page? Jeeeeesus…… Yes, people marry people they met on the internet all the time. The (huge) difference is that they 1) meet on the internet, then 2) meet in person, then 3) date for a year or two, then 4) get married. You don’t skip steps 2 and 3! This is either some kind of bbs prank, or I am seriously worried about you. Even more worried for this chick you won’t leave alone. She needs to get a restraining order.
This can't be real, right? Tell me it's a joke. I also want to hear the story behind why you got discharged.
She's using you for her own amusement, and yes you are crazy. Get some professional help. Also she sounds a little ****ed in the head for leading you off and on all these years. You'd both make each other miserable, and from reading it seems like you both already are.
Oh man... this reminds me. I think you are getting played. A few years ago, I had a female co-worker who did something similar to guy over the internet. In real life, she was a 5'3" 350-400lb secretary who had a really unpleasant personality, but on the internet she was a former model and looked just like Avril Lavigne. The guy she fooled was in the Army too. Anyway, how we found out was that the guy eventually called the office looking for her. I happened to answer the phone and this dude randomly asked me to describe her. I told him I wouldn't divulge personal things to random people, etc. so he eventually told me who he was and their relationship. Dude was like "so she isn't a model? she doesn't look like Avril Lavigne?" I was LOL. Turns out they had been talking for years... and he was in love with her, but had never met her. They planned to get married, talked on the phone almost every night... etc. Our manager told me she'd been "playing" on the internet for a long time talking to lots of different guys. I bet something like that is happening to you.
In the history of Clutch Fans, I don't think I've read a sadder (and I don't mean that in a way) post. Shakes head
Three words: Let. It. Go. I agree with pretty much everyone above, but regardless, she said she was really falling for your "fake" character, also. You ain't the only guy she does this to. Besides, if y'all have never met, how do you honestly know what she even looks like? Ugh. I'm done. Not enough advice in the world to correct this.
Wow. Ummm...yes, you appear to be stalking her. Line was def crossed with the whole fake myspace thing. Let it go, amigo.
I have not read through the replies after reading your first post, so hopefully, someone has mentioned what I am going to suggest to you; and I do not mean this to be offensive, but, you need to discuss your fixation with a psychological/psychiatric professional. For your own safety, and the safety of others, go speak to a psychologist/psychiatrist of some sort. Bring a copy of your post with you. Good luck.
This is why I'm in all favor of Hybrid Technology... This stuff would never happen in the year 1812, right???
To the opening poster...all I can say is "Wow". As someone that has acted irrationally in many a relationship and thereafter, I don't think I have ever gotten to the level that you are at. What you are doing is not healthy. Let me say that again... What you are doing is not healthy. It's not healthy for you or her. Whether you think you have problems or not, I think it is very clear that you have some issues and again, whether you believe it or not, they are NOT just with this girl. You have shown a pattern over the entire time period you have known this girl. You really are walking a thin line in which you could wind up in some serious trouble. I think you can see that, otherwise you wouldn't be posting here about it. You know what you need to do and seem to be looking for confirmation. Well, I'd say you have it man. I hope you can do the right thing before something worse happens.
Seriously....listen to yourself. MAKE her fall in love with you?? HKC, let it go, re-evaluate yourself and if you cannot do it on your own, get help before you wind up in trouble.
Wow? Really? Are you kidding? You post on a Rockets fan board about your problem hoping under the guise of anonymity people will either feed you ego? And yes, attention, even hate, feels creatures like you. You want proof? Reread what you just wrote... desperation seems to be your elixir of creativity. Despite that, I can't help but think that somewhere underneath this selfish narcissistic caricature, there is a guy that might just need some genuine kick in the gonads. I could continue to call your pompous ass out... but you are just so darn beautiful, right? Your like Adonis after he got hit by the stupid bus. I myself am of a humble non-discript looks. I'm the kind of guy that would try a style out and have other guys copy my style, and wind up copying their superior copy of me. Yes, that made sense. You get meaningless sex all the time... which of course is an oxymoron. Sex has a function, it satisfies our primal urge to be fruitful and to multiply. So yeah, meaningless sex ='s no sex. Don't try being cool, faking like you get some is sooooo High School... like OMG! Look, pain hurts, glory fades and all we are left with are the memories made... or something like that. Love hurts in real life and women can make men do irrational things. When my fiance and I were just dating (during undergrad), she went to study abroad in Rome. Missing her... well...I incured the wrath of disapproving parents, "scheduled" a prolonged absense with my professors (which is like a glorified "please don't fail me, I'm smart and in love" a dicotomy of epic proportions), risked losing all of my scholarships, worked multible part-time jobs.... and bought a ticket to go over during her study break. It was crazy and stupid and could have cost me dearly. I surprised her, took her all over Europe, ended up in Paris, looked over at her during a candle lit dinner at the Au Rocher de Cancale... and said to myself...worth it. You have issues buddy, and maybe love is in play. Irrationality happens, it IS... simple as Aristotle put it. This life, this world, is irrational served in snippets of reasonableness. People try to keep everything reasonable and mundane because it offers a placebo-like calming effect. However, You have issues. You are messed up. You need help. You owe it to this girl to get yourself in working order. You no doubt wrote on here for some advise...I took the bait, you win. Now go COWBOY THE F### UP and get your **** straight. When you are at peace with yourself and matured to a level of stability and sanity, go see about a girl. -V
I just read the original post now... and wow. You are psychotic bro. You basically went far beyond feelings and well into obsession long ago. Let me tell you something about obsession... it creates unreal expectations. Even if she did end up being with you, it would never last because you guys are both ****ed in the head and one might end up in county and the other 6 feet deep. Put the keyboard down. Step away from the computer.
