Think about this dude: I really doubt the powers of the universe have aligned against the two of you actually meeting each other. Five years. The truth that you've been avoiding is that she probably DOESN"T want to meet you. She's obviously kept you at a distance for whatever reason. You probably don't believe it now, but you're gonna end up being better off without her, and she will probably be better off without you. Nothing good can come out of this.
imo to get your point across, you need to post those said pics you have of her on this board. then everybody will be able to decide if your a stalking or not
Yes, you are, leave her alone. She just wants someone, but not you. If she is cautious, she should stay away from you, you have already shown tendencies of being unstable in your conversations with her. One thing that I found odd is the thing about the ticket to Hawaii that she supposedly gave to her mom. Flight tickets are personalized and cannot just be given to someone else. Also: I agree with that.
I'm not even trying to be mean here but you definitely need some sort of professional counseling or help. I'm no psychiatrist but with the type of behavior you're exhibiting you sound obsessive. Not only that, but I highly doubt this story ends simply with you venting about it on the internet (wrong forum, no less), turning the page and starting fresh. The only thing missing from this thread is the link to the CNN article two years from now telling us how you kidnapped and ate this woman alive.
Dude, I just figured it out. You're wearing a Wolf shirt arent you? http://www.birkoph.com/Wolf_tshirt.htm
IMO i think professional help would be the best thing. Everybody looks at that as a bad thing.. why? at some point in life we all need help with something. Some of us can obtain that help thought friends, family, co-workers. Sometimes its very necessary to seek someone professionally to talk to that can actually give you REAL help, and that's not a bad thing its a luxury actually to be able to do that. Life doesn't come with instructions and we all need help sometimes.
Wow, I read the whole thing. You really seem to be "crazy". I mean, all this for a girl you never met? No girl wants to be with a guy that "blows up" like that. You're doing all this over the internet, she must be terrified to meet you in person. It's only one girl! How can you act this way for a chick you never met? To go as far as creating fake accounts and putting on a act as another person? Thats pretty stalker-ish to me. 5 years of this? Amazing. I hope you realize there are plenty of other girls out there. Some, you can actually meet in person and not just the internet. Let it go, dude. If it's been 5 years and you still haven't seen her, its time to move on. She obviously doesn't want to be with you. Sure she reads all your messages, probably to see how crazy you are.
Amazing. I thought we'd already had the girls with babies thread. She started talkng to you six years ago and she was married virtually the entire time? How could you ever trust her even if she this did go somewhere? This girl has been playing the fiddle of your emotions like Johnny in The Devil Went Down To Geogia. ****ing vampire. You are wasting your time. I don't know what she wants... sounds like she may not either, but it's not you.
If she really liked you, she would have already been with you. She probably thinks you are nuts, and is scared of you. The only reason she even responds to you is probably just to string you along for her own amusement. Fact is, you don't even know this girl. She is probably MUCH different than you think. You have put her on a pedestal. No girl wants that much pressure to live up to a certain ideal. You will never be with her. Stop stalking her.
I don't understand how if you feel so strongly about this girl you can't put enough money together and on your own accord go surprise her. Spontaneity has it's advantages. Five years and you still haven't even met her in person? Just doesn't make much sense to me when you are perfectly capable of arranging a meeting yourself. Take the reins.
If everything you said is 100% true, she might like the attention you are giving her, but I think she is playing with fire. It's best for both of you to leave each other alone.
Dude, there is no doubt you are stalking her. When I read your thread all I could think of was that lady who got killed up in Spring, stalked and killed by some dude she knew way back in high school. Get the eff away from her and take a good look in the mirror. She is telling you to stay out of her life. If you care for her, please do so. And get yourself some help.
"5 years and i still havent seen her" So you are banging hot girls left and right, but at the same time heartbroken over a girl you have never met, and who rarely responds to messages? Sorry, but you probably haven't gotten laid in 5 years, and that's what is making you a bit nuts.
I agree. The stuff about constantly picking up hot girls is not credible in the context of the other things the OP has posted.
Sorry OP but I find it a bit hard to believe that someone who can pick up chicks all the time would act like that about someone they have never met. If you seriously feel the need to seek help here then you could at least cut the bull****. Although I can think of a least one serial killer who was able to use good looks.
This Followed by this. Equals hilarity, especially considering how things turned out. You are a stalker. I would do whatever was necessary at this point to stop thinking about her and move on...because this could get MUCH worse for you before it gets better (and potentially her as well depending on where you go with it). This sounds like a WAY better story.
You can't put the p***y on a pedestal, brah what a pathetic story. Do you know what you could have been doing with all the time you've pissed away with this garbage?
