I actually told her how terrible i feel and how i feel like a stalker when all i really wanted was to always be there for her like i promised i would be when she asked me. For a while there i kept saying how she didnt have to be scared of me and im not some psycho and she told me she knows and that shes not scared of me and its not like that at all..
i read thru the whole thing hoping that the husband is a rockets players or something. oh well, still a good read
Well, I feel for you, dude. But it doesn't sound like a healthy situation for either of you. Better to move on and find someone in the real world IMO.
Well thats why ive tried to make it be "real." I've told her im thinking of moving there and she said it would be nice and wanted me to take her on a date but i dunno if she will ever get over this last screw up....
1) Making fake accounst -> You are a stalker 2) Multiple snapping, begging for forgiveness cycle -> Mental problems 3) Being emotionally (so you think) attached to someone you have never met -> Mental problems 4) Asking for feed back/comment/advice on a basketball forum -> Mental problems You need some counseling man. Meet up with a psychiatrist; go tell her/him your story.
Man i remember when this forum used to be supportive now the replies are all sarcastic and mean. yikes! But i believe nothing good could come out of this situation. I never really heard anything like this before. I think you and her might have some problems or maybe its just me saying this cause im not in your situation. I can only see it from my POV and i dont think this is....healthy? But on the other hand how do you just forget about someone? Do you think its possible for you to forget about her?
How can you be so drawn to someone you haven't even met? Most of what she said to you on-line about how she feels towards you is probably bull*****. Just because Myspace says she "read" your messages doesn't mean she actually took the time to read them. Move on.
That basically explains it. I made this 3 years ago for her when i worked in a machine shop. Behind are some of my fav letters she gave me when i was in training and plus i needed the red background. I made form just from an ugly block of plastic and a talented russian guy drilled the hearts for me. I always wanted to give it to her in person. I told her it represents my heart and that the big flower represented her and the lil flower was her daughter and that they would always be in my heart and that it was hers always. ...i kept it untill this valentines day when i realized i might have screwed up for the last time and i might not be able to give to her in person anymore so i mailed it to the hospital she works at. I also made several drawings for her last time we were talking and she blew them up and hung them on her wall....
It is a sad commentary on life in the USA today that HKC has slipped through the crack and no one has intervened to get him medical attention. And yet, probably each of us knows someone personally who has also slipped through the crack. I hope HKC will soon seek counseling of the more professional sort, and that he will actually obtain it. Best to you HKC.
I dont know if i can. Greg8231984 How can you be so drawn to someone you haven't even met? Most of what she said to you on-line about how she feels towards you is probably bull*****. Just because Myspace says she "read" your messages doesn't mean she actually took the time to read them. Move on. She does read every word. Every single one. Shes talked to me about a lot of them and how beautiful they are. It's not just crap shes told me, its emotional through just talking. Not about anything specific but the connection is there. I never had to see her in person to know i had feelings, but i have to see her in person to have the physical connection that i crave.
Probably the best advice, but not because you've got mental problems. You just need someone to talk to about it.
correction. On another note about doubting she even really reads my messages. About 90% of the time i write her, she will get online within 2 minutes to read, no matter how late in the night it is.
wow. 1st off wrong place. next, desperate. go to the local bar, start a conversation with a good looking chick, exchange numbers, then next time... so easy.
I dont think i have problems. I asked that as a joke really about the mental problems. But, why do i have to be crazy to have such strong feelings for someone without having to see her. Are you all saying this is impossible? You know how many people marry now a days after meeting for online? If i seek out help, its to get over her. Not to give me a prescription for my feelings for her.
Are you telling me to slow it down at bars? I go to bars all the time. And when i do meet someone. I find myself in her bed a few hours later. To be honest.....i never even get off....its so emotionless to me now. And for everyone, i have been seeing someone for 8 months up untill december and then till February we were still sleeping together and now i dont talk to her. So yeah, even while seeing somone and keeping busy, i cant stop from thinking of her and writing her.
No, I'm not saying seek help or that you've got mental problems. Not at all and sorry if it sounded like it. And forget whatever advice I wrote before, because I just realized I have no idea what I'm talking about. I'm just saying it's obvious you want to talk to someone about it and get some feedback on the situation. Why else would you have posted your story online? But seeing a therapist or a professional about it will give you much better insight into your situation than a bunch of basketball fans ever could. It absolutely doesn't mean you're crazy or need to be cured or anything. Again, good luck.
