OP, your thread title infers that this topic is like the gorilla in the room here. Like it's just been looming and everyone knows it's there but is afraid to speak on it. Let me be the first to inform you that your inference is NOT accurate, and that this inquiry and curiosity genuinely appears to be unique to you and you alone. While watching the TV show Silicon Valley on HBO (great show btw) I saw a reference to a website called grinder.com - I'm not sure, but I think you may find what you're looking for there.
This is bull. I know for a fact I'm not the only one with thoughts like this. Did not expect to be made fun of as if I'm the only one.
Hacked? We have a few thousand posters. I'm sure there are several people here who do have such proclivities, maybe even silently reading this thread. But, I'm not confident anyone will be raising their hands. Maybe you'll get some private messages. I don't swing that way, but others do. If I were gay there'd be no problem. No, what I have is a romantic abnormality. One so unbelievable that it must be hidden from the public at all costs.
Dang, that's Hallmark worthy! Just need some Barry White music and you're the next Bruno Mars!... ....... ....... .......
OP, Your original post is pretty vague. You need to be more specific, lest people get the wrong idea. You could be DOMINATED by another dude in a game of CHECKERS for crying out loud. You could be DOMINATED on the basketball court, you could be dominated in some online video game. You could mean something like that. Of course, you could also be referring to a desire to don your buttless chaps and leather nazi hat and crawl around on the floor while some other dude uses a whatever to do whatever to your whatever. Point being, you're not being CLEAR dude.