To throw in my dos pesos into this thread. The only time I've lived with women who I weren't related to or dating was in the coed dorm in college. The floors and even bathroom was coed. Not that big of deal and as DD said you just treat them like people and don't get all worked up about living with attractive women. Still there were plenty of awkward moments, such as the first time you hear a woman letting it fly in the bathroom, but part of college and being young is awkward moments. Also for the poster who made the comment that most women are either complete slobs or clean freaks I've noticed that too. Its tough dealing with either and as people have said about telling women they are fat try criticizing them for their cleaning habits or lack of. Regarding telling women they are fat there generally is no good way of doing it. The only time I've been able to make comments about a woman's weight without getting are trouble are certain women I've known in martial arts. Those are generally self-selecting as already being more tomboyish, less sensitive about their looks, and its not so bad when the comment is made regarding making a weight class for competition. Outside of chicks who enjoy kicking ass and are more concerned about throwing someone than if their ass looks fat I don't recommend commenting about weight. For that matter skin blemishes, body odor or fashion. One more thing to watch out if you are living with two women is if they have a spat. That is something you definately don't want to be around as they will want you to pick a side and they may try to manipulate you to get back at the other one. Other than that I wouldn't worry too much about it. I don't think planning on trying to sleep with them is a good idea but lets not rule anything out here. Good Luck!
I would say the RULE should be not to sleep with a platonic female roommate. Of course, there will be exceptions to the rule if the girl can handle a purely sexual relationship with a person she is living with and not get jealous, emotional, is mature enough, etc. The reason why I say the rule should be not to sleep with your roommates is that it can easily result in a ton more trouble than it was worth. Ever had a girlfriend go kinda crazy after you dumped them? Take that and magnify it by ten-fold because you will be living with that girl and can't make a clean break. If she goes crazy, you can potentially expect: not being able to ever bring another girl over to hook up with without immature retaliation on the roommate's part and scaring the other girl away, an uncomfortable living environment for the remainder of your lease, her destroying your property, her trying to physically hit you, or having to move out of the house. I've seen that type of situation go very bad multiple times while I was in college. The worst of which ended with the girl filing a false rape allegation against my friend. Sometimes the convenient lay with the roommate just isn't worth the potential trouble, especially if you believe you can just as easily get some action outside of the house.
You can't sleep with friends, period. One will like one more than the other, and then it turns into crap. Hit on their friends, and be thankful they bring them over.
When sharing a place with two other people, the situation always devolves into a battle of two against one. Get ahead of the game. Pick one of the females and slowly turn her against the other. Otherwise, their shared gender will cause them to form a bond, leaving you as the odd one out. Also, passive aggression is almost a second language to women. Learn to recognize it, defuse it, and if necessary, use it to your advantage. Having a female partner in crime may help you translate their insanity. Hostility grows exponentially when multiple women are mad at you, which is why you must form your alliance with the stronger female quickly.
This thread title makes my testosterone level raging.... and then your post brings chills down my spine.
Did anyone just say, moving in with two girls is probably a bad idea that will most likely end with a lot of drama. I would advise you not to. You've got sexual tension and distraction, jealousy, differing cleanliness standards, boyfriends, suspicious parents, privacy issues, you can't just fight if it becomes unbearable, there be will two of THEM verses you, if money becomes a problem you will defer against your better judgment because they are women etc, etc. And beewbs are just fat rolls on a ladies' chest
YES! Great Idea! Then she'll go out with her friends and her friend will be like "that stipendlax is kinda cute" which will make your roommate want to come home and DO you before her friend does. God I wish I was in your position.
If none of these advice works. Granted I haven't read through all these pages, pop in My Life, starring Michael Keaton and Nicole Kidman and bam, it's the sure thing.
