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Advice on "Love" How do you know it's real?

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by us_marine007, Feb 15, 2008.

  1. us_marine007

    us_marine007 Member

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    If you met a girl about a year ago, only saw her once, and she finds you on myspace and talks to you for a week on AOL.. and then after that week claims to be "madly inlove" with you and doesnt say goodbye to you unless she says I love you first... is that real love? cuz i mean for me, i wouldnt say "I love you" to a girl unless i know her very well and her family very well which could take up to 5-12 months for me... what do u guys think?
     
  2. ClutchCityReturns

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    When it's not on AOL.
     
  3. rrj_gamz

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    That's not love..Sounds like lust, but it depends on how "mature" she is...She's probably just starving for your attention and wants you to know she cares about you...

    Of course, you just know when its love and IMHO, you shouldn't say it unless you mean it...this girl I"m seeing now says it all the time and to me, it loses its meaning...I agree that you should be cautious and not say it just to appease her...

    Or...

    She just wants to have your baby...practicing is fun...
     
  4. Lady_Di

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    Fixed.

    Kidding aside, it is NOT "LOVE". You have to spend time with the person physically, not on the internet. She is probably in love with your personality or just plain crazy. That's all.
     
  5. ClutchCityReturns

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    I thought the synonymity between AOL and Internet was kind of obvious...
     
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    i think she's just plain crazy... i practically told her today to leave me alone once she emailed me talking about kids and how many i wanted and even their names! :eek:
     
  8. ClutchCityReturns

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    Pitch "Caturday" and "Cheezburger" as kid names and see what she says.
     
  9. bladeage

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    worthless without pics.
     
  10. SWTsig

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    if you dunk her in a lake and she floats, she's a witch.... burn her at the stake. if she sinks and subsequently drowns... she's the one!
     
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    You already have kids with her. They will be online soon. They love you, too.

    lol
     
  12. us_marine007

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    heck naw i aint got no kids! im no sprewell man ;) btw i dont even think i can have kids anymore.. my left side including my *ahem is pretty much gone... the right sides are damaged aswell but my *ahem on the right side is still intact... yes i know.. "ouch" :( :mad:
     
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    Run boy Run!!
     
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    1. Pics.

    2. How do you come up with 5-12 months?

    3. Hit it. Quit it.
     
  15. Beck

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    Everybodys lookin for somethin
    Somethin to fill in the holes
    We think a lot but dont talk much about it
    til things get out of control
    How do I know when its love
    I cant tell you but it lasts forever
    How does it feel when its love
    Its just something you feel together
    When its love
    You look at every face in a crowd
    Some shine and some keep you guessin
    Waiting for someone to come into focus
    Teach you your final love lesson
    How do I know when its love
    I cant tell you but it lasts forever
    How does it feel when its love
    Its just something you feel together
    Oh oh oh oh
    Oh when its love
    Oh oh oh oh
    You can feel it yeah
    Oh oh oh oh
    Nothings missing
    Yeah
    Oh oh oh oh
    Oh oh oh oh
    Oh oh oh oh
    Nothings missing
    How do I know when its love,
    I cant tell you but it lasts forever
    How does it feel when its love
    I cant tell you but it lasts forever
    When its love
    When its love
    Itll last forever
    When its love
    You and i
    Were gonna feel this thing together
    When its love
    When its love
    You can feel it
    Well make it last forever
    When its love
     
  16. pippendagimp

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    real luv for men: five minutes after animal sex she hand-feeds you chocolate covered marshmallows and gives you a back massage while you watch some bball on the plasma

    real luv for women: for five hours preceding sex you tell her how much you truly believe that your relationship together is a product of destiny and how ravishing she will look all decked out in the Prada clothes you're gonna buy here while she's sitting in the back of the chauffered Bentley you're gonna get her so that she will be able to travel in style from the hilltop cottage-mansion you both will be living in to the dayspa for manicures, etc.....all the while cuddling together whilst listening to Julio Iglesias of course..
     
  17. us_marine007

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    <==thats her bro

    *5-12 months is a reasonable time table to find out if you truly love the girl you are with... for me at least, dont know about you

    *haha naw man, i aint like that, and plus, i am damaged goods... :(
     
  18. superfob

    superfob Mommy WOW! I'm a Big Kid now.

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    It's not love, it's a stalker.
     
  19. bladeage

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    Not good looking enough to put up with the inevitable drama and potential future stalker. Plus she looks like she might be "bi" which I guess could be a plus unless she decided to be straight when she is with you.
     
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