I know it's ****ty, but you should murder her. I was in a similar situation a long time ago and the only way I was able to get over it was to cut her out of my life completely.
Enough with the "I know it's ****ty" jokes, guys. CF bro needs some CF help. I stand by my earlier post. Spoiler I know it's ****ty, but you should kidnap her younger siblings and insist that if you don't receive 5 BJs a day for the next week that you'll never reveal their location to anyone. Of course, even if she does this, by the time you notify her of the location of the siblings they will be long dead. But after giving you so many BJs she'll be so in love with you that she won't care anymore.
Time to go get you some. Options: 1. Whip it out! 2. Be a Dick and just keep touching her inappropriately [these are known as the run her away options] 3. Get a life outside of her 4. Get another chick - make her feel like a 3rd wheel 5. Distance yourself from her Remember: Be Friendly. . . never friends Rocket River
Sounds like a situation I was in during part of my time in College. I wanted this one girl so bad, but I got stuck. I was with her all of the time to the extent it affected my personal and academic life, and I had to spill it. I had to tell her how I felt, and get her out of my life when it didn't go my way. I don't regret that for a second. All she did was destroy my confidence and make me feel like I couldn't get a fine girl. I hurt myself to get out of that situation, and now I'm pulling all sorts of ass. Don't let a woman do that to you.
I am going to tell you what helped me out from something very similar (minus the time lapse, which is ridiculously long). CUT TIES COMPLETELY. The farther away you get from her, the easier it will be to forget about her, and the less you will obsess about her. You will get over her. You will move on. You will be happy. It hurts to know someone you have emotionally invested in is not interested. It hurts even more to know that you arent doing anything to change your situation. As a last hoorah, give her an ultimatum. Either she gets back together with you, or you say your goodbyes and move on. She is obviously comfortable with having you as a friend, even though she knows how you feel (girls know bro). Once you are gone, she will try to get your attention. The more you push away the better it is for you. Don't push away just to get back in the same friendzoned position you are in now. Do this to finally move on. This will obviously be your decision ultimately, but take my words as they have come from experience.
fallenphoenix, I would prefer this option: No need to announce your plans or explain why. Just move on bro.
she's been asking me to go to a festival with her next month, so i'll just say i don't think it's a good idea and explain why
You're not listening. Just say something came up. Don't "explain why". If you do need to tell her, tell her you'll be busy with your gf that day. Be nonchalant about it and hang up like you would with any friend. Cease communication and move on. EDIT:: Another thing, she's NOT your girlfriend. You do NOT need to explain why you can't hang out with her that day. This is how you should start thinking.
whatever...I didn't mean rape like beat her up and take it. I said get her drunk enough to make the mistake. Take advantage of her. It happens to girls every weekend from ages 13 and up. They never learn, so take advantage by taking advantage. Once your j*zz is drying up in her and she's taking a few days to think to herself, she will find thoughts of you inside her instead of you buying her things and showing her a good time as a friend b4 going home to get rammed by some stud that isn't you.
OK I'm going to give you advice that helped me through a similar situation when I was younger... First acknowledge that she rejected you. Accept it, as this is something that happened to everyone. Also realize that if you go back to her you are giving her even more power in the situation (women like to be on the other end of that regardless of what they say). You can't give her that. She has to come crawling back to you, which is unlikely unless you win the lotto or get in significantly better physical shape. And we know a girl who does that just wants you for money or sex and not the amazing person you are. So really there is no fix on this bro. She will not respect you as long as you keep treating her like she's the bee's knees when in reality she had disrespected you. Would you respect someone who keeps pining over you, even though you rejected them? So what to do? Realize it wasn't meant to be and move on to someone who actually gives a damn about you. Life is too short to chase after one girl who clearly won't ever respect you when there are such better options out there. And now... some upbeat friendzoned music for ya! <iframe width="420" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/AqkUqxdDKj8" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>
