you want advice from a bunch of nerds? most of us are still virgins. I'm with those that say go on the date. It's close to the holiday season can't let her down.
go out and have some harmless fun. At some point, however, tell her you really aren't looking for anything serious. Who knows...maybe she just wants a no-strings-attached-bang
whats the rule on separate checks? when i go out with a girl, even when it's just a reallhy good friend, ive paid for both. in this case, i think separate checks be a deal breaker for her. this seems like a date to me
I dunno. I think I disagree with everyone else here. I think my advice would be to send her a message like this: Hey Jenny I gotta be honest - I'm not feeling it. I know that, by saying this, I sound like a jerk, but I'd be more of a jerk if I was leading along or just trying to get in your pants. I don't want to be like that to you. With this in mind, we probably should call off our date.
^^^ Unless he absolutely can't stand the thought of spending time with her, or is on the lemon cleanse diet or something, what's the harm in doing this over dinner? And I would pick up the tab for you and her.
man come on don't be so closed minded and stubborn. If she's hot like you said, what DON'T you like about her? but in all seriousness, try to open minded about it, go on the date and don't say anything about relationships/what you're looking for. Just go out and have fun! if she grew on you, you'll ask her out again. If not, "I'm busy the next couple of weeks with work" works like a charm.
You know what would be hilarious? If you showed up to pick her up at her apartment and she was dead. That would be classic!
Good god, man. Take her out. Pay for dinner. Tell her that you like her but are not looking for anything serious or exclusive right now.
You do what you want in that situation. Simple as that. Disregard her feelings. There is no obligation at this point. She should know that... shes a big girl. If you don't feel like going on that date don't, if you feel like playing sometime on a weekend or when its convenient let her know at that point. Plans are only for those that deserve them.
Post some body shots and white out the face to conceal her identity. I'd like to evaluate. You could use some natural testosterone boosters around you - right now you're just looking for someone who represents your mother - which hasn't done much for you in life so far. It's time to become a man Fatty.
