I think parents teaching their kids the mindset that your parents taught you is precise something that would drive kids to do these very sexually deviant things. To tell them that it is something they shouldn't do, that you should not be open and sharing with others, that you should isolate yourself from other people at large, which goes against human nature, is precisely the isolationist mindset that would drive a kid, who has not had their natural instincts twisted into habitual behavior yet, to do the very thing they are prohibited from doing. Kids should be explained what sex organs are, what they are used for, and given the correct explanation of how and when they should be used, as well as the sacredness and respect to other people, their bodies, and their feelings. I think that the prohibition thereof causes more deviant behavior than the strategy of clarification and enlightening the child would.
Blah blah blah...I should actually correct what I said since it seems I typed it wrong, I was taught what was wrong for people to do when it comes to me, from that, I assumed it wasn't right for me to do those things to others...that's what I should have said. If you still think by what I've said, that it "would drive kids to do these very sexually deviant things", then you're wrong, I haven't molested anyone and I certainly wasn't fondling people when I was 11.
I saw this on the japan thread. Interesting article. http://www.gaijinsmash.net/archives/introduction_-.phtml
I didn't want you to take it the wrong way- that anyone who was taught that way would become a sexual deviant- certainly I didn't mean you. What I meant was that when certain other conditions are added to the mix, that being taught that way leads to sexual deviance, whereas taught in the way that everyone is sacred and their feelings and bodies are to be respected, but no boundaries at all are set, then that does not lead to sexual deviance when those certain other conditions are present.
I think I know what you're saying, and don't worry, I didn't take it personal...and I'm completely generalizing how I was taught as a child because I'm too lazy to sit down and remember it all, all I know is that it worked because I haven't molested anyone and haven't had any kind of issue like that, and I was brought up to believe that "everyone is sacred and their feelings and bodies are to be respected", that is huge.
