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I am ending my p*rn addiction starting today.

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by jacoby, Apr 9, 2020.

  1. jacoby

    jacoby Member

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    I've been quarantined in New York for weeks now and haven't left my house. It's given me unlimited free time at home since I've lost my job due to the virus. I've squandered hours every day on pornographic material that otherwise could have been spent reading, studying, or exercising. I've also shunned the stark reality that my stance on women and sexuality in general has been greatly skewed by my experiences with p*rn and particularly the taboo nature and power dynamics displayed in particular genres.

    I'm 24. I don't want to be 40 and looking back at tarnished relationships because of my inability to separate p*rn/fantasies and reality. I don't really know why I'm telling Clutchfans this, but maybe there are others on this board who can relate and have advice to share. As of April 9th, 2020, I will be abstaining from p*rn entirely and reserve any sexual experiences I have going forward to the real thing, without projecting my warped view of how sexual interactions could/should be because of how the p*rn industry has brainwashed me and fetishized my perspective on women and sex.

    Thanks for reading.
     
  2. Pole

    Pole Houston Rockets--Tilman Fertitta's latest mess.

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    Good luck! Keep us updated on your progress.
     
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    Masturbation in times of corona!
    that was for Amigo and Jontro.
     
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    You got tired, retired.
     
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    This. Infatuation with actresses, size 0 models also do not work.

    Maybe plus size models.
     
  7. ima_drummer2k

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    Serious post: Good for you. Refreshing self-awareness in that OP that will definitely help you now and later on in life.

    Stupid post: Eh....you're probably just getting stale. Try switching it up. Maybe a different category that you've never fapped to before.
     
  8. Xerobull

    Xerobull You son of a b!tch! I'm in!

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    I applaud your choice, and if you need MILF PAWG BBW BBC ATM DPP/DPA to get off, it's certainly not realistic.

    As with most things, moderation is good.
     
  9. RKREBORN

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    Bruh no matter how much you watch, when you see pu$$y in real life, it's better than any on the computer
     
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    Look up "horror p*rn"...
     
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    Do people spend hours watching p*rn? I guess I'm the exception, because I like to get it done and move on with my day.
    I might spend 20 minutes on it tops a day.
     
  12. Pole

    Pole Houston Rockets--Tilman Fertitta's latest mess.

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    I will say, when you start dating, it should be okay to crank one out immediately prior to that first date or two......just so you aren’t too singularly focused.
     
  13. Pole

    Pole Houston Rockets--Tilman Fertitta's latest mess.

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    At least that’s what I read somewhere.
     
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    Pole Houston Rockets--Tilman Fertitta's latest mess.

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    Xerobull You son of a b!tch! I'm in!

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    Reminds me of my 20's.
     
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    I'm gonna go ahead and assume that there was one last farewell shortly before this thread was made.
     
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    Last night's nut gave me this epiphany.
     
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    Hours? I like 10 mins and under vids. Like my dumps, I'm in and out, just like that dump of a burger joint.
     
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    Good for you, OP, for recognizing the hold p*rn has over you and coming to grips with it. When we exit this crisis, if we exit this crisis, the world's going to be a different place. Best to start preparing for that reality now, rather than being caught with your pants down.
     
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