So my girlfriend of almost 2 years confessed to me last night that she cheated on me back in February. I thought she was the one, my friends thought she was the one, and even my family thought she was the one. I moved to OKC in March to take a job offer. She found a job after looking around some and got a job in OKC too in order to be with me and started the week after me. So now I am in a city with no one I know, living about 100 yards away from her. So yeah, pretty much sucks.
What sucks the most is that you live in OKC lol. Good that you found out now as opposed to after marriage
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She get back with her. Like you said you are stuck in a city with no one else, and more importantly you are kind of stuck living with her.
Sorry bout that breh. Many of us has gone through the same, although for me at a much younger age and nowhere thinking about marriage. Tell her you cheated too with someone prettier, sexier, and smarter. Then put on your shades and walk away and never look back.
Sry to here, its probably for best you found this out before marriage but still hard to take in...just start doing something you enjoy to get your mind off of it...
Be done with her. Cheaters will cheat everytime they have a chance. Why did she tell you? Were you pressing or she just had a guilty conscience? Join an online dating site and you will quickly make some good f***buddies in your area.
That's not true. I know people who have done it once, felt more guilt than pleasure and remained true forever after. Young people are driven by hormones and ego over intellect. But you do need to have a real conversation about it. Why? How does she feel about it now? How do you feel, can you get past it? Set limits. Hell some people ae happy in open relationships.
Or take her back. Use her for you know what. Make it like FWB. Do your thing behind her back. Leave her if need be once you find someone else.
Sorry to hear that brah. If this makes you feel better, my first love and my GF cheated on me with one of my best friends. Oh well. Life goes on. Hope you get through this well.
God, thats awful man. Real sorry. If the trust's gone in the relationship man...its going to be very hard to come back from this point, back to where things were. It was...nice... of her to let you know what you did but maybe you should look into breaking things off. You thought she was the one for you, but she showed she's just another one for another man.
Guily conscience. About a week ago she told me she was losing that "feeling" when it came to our relationship. So like a jacka** I've been trying to make an effort to be more involved in the things that she loves to do in order to make her happy. Then this happens. Makes me feel like an idiot. You can give everything you have to someone, and they turn right around and give everything to someone else.
Sorry to hear this. Once trust has been broken in a relationship it's extremely hard to get back. Especially cheating!!! Do you even want to get back with her? Now that she's told you, do you think she's cheated on you in the past? Also, was this a one time thing, or was she cheating with this person for awhile? Personally I couldn't ever trust my wife again, and would move on. However this isn't me it's you. If she did it more than once this isn't her hormones out of whack. This is a LIAR who isn't to be trusted, and trust me she WILL do it again. I hope that you get the peace you're seeking and that god will give you the wisdom and courage to get through this trial.
