Actually . . . This was just a random question based off a post in a Facebook Group. Some dude 'smashed' his homie's ex and was confused why the homie was mad. Rocket River
IMO all of these: 1. Friend went out with her for over a month 2. Friend *hit* it 3. Friend had or has feelings for her Only exception: If they went on a few "dates" but he has no doesn't and never had any feelings for her. Think - situation where he only saw her as for "fun" but nothing more. EDIT:: I'll take "hit it" out, since it really depends on the situation. Also remember it doesn't matter what the GIRL thinks of the situation, ie she says "it was never that serious, etc". It only matters what your friend thnks of the situation. If he's cool, then you're cool.
It's not bro code, it's friggn personal man code. You don't leech off someone elses rat droppings, be a man, venture out and find your own ****.