No, I said Dwight opened his mouth first and that's what I'd like to hear. This comment came much later, once they walked away and then started up again. I'm referring to Howard saying something to kobe right after he elbowed him (15 second mark of that video). That's what started the back and forth. I initially thought Kobe started it, but I thought it was weird to see it was Dwight.
I am thinking Dwight might have been pissed at himself and took it out on Kobe. He missed a lot of free throws.
Kobe has a history of being an antagonist while Dwight doesn't. Is that what you mean? Howard is a large human. He could toss another man like a beanbag.