Fatty, I think mystery needs another pupil, I'll forward him your crazy emails. Dude, seriously, if you have to "remind" a girl of how she is coming on to you and put guilt trips on her because she doesn't meet to your expectations then you need to move the hell on! You sound desperate as hell. Start a war. Or save the embarrassment and get you a hooker. Either way, it's time wasted and you should move on.
i should have made this my first post.. now that fatty has called off the war it doesn't work as well
Well, we've already basically made up. Saw her out again on Saturday, and after ignoring her most of the eve (she was at our table on the opposite side), I pulled her aside as she was walking by, apologized, and said we'd talk later. Then yesterday and today, we've been exchanging nonsense emails like nothing happened. The only reason I want to talk to her is to call her out on how I felt she was basically using me for affirmation when she was single, and then blowing me off when she found someone better. I thought, and still think it was uncool, but in the end, we are still really good friends, and at least now, I know better than to let emotions get involved. But I may just let the whole thing go. Who knows. I guess the "why" isn't that important, as long as I know how to handle it in the future. If any ladies would like to chime in, feel free. No one stays mad at Fatty!
You have to find your own. Mine fell out of a tree, a friend came across it, and since it was a baby owl, with no apparent nest, he took it home. Not enjoying feeding the fellow, he asked me if I'd like to have him. Next thing I knew, I was digging worms. The rest, as you know, is history. Good luck! And Fatty, if you make it to Iraq, I have no doubt that you'll get laid.