So one of my friends just called me and said she found out my girlfriend has been telling her friends all about what goes on in our relationship. I know my gf has a big mouth when she gets emotional (ie upset with me) and b****es to her friends about me. Personally, I believe what goes on in somebody's relationship should stay in the relationship, and I never tell my friends about our "dirty laundry". I already told her once last yr. I do not want her talking to her friends about our relationship, but obviously she didn't listen. Should I be upset with her and how upset should I be? Not sure what I should do...
If she's telling her friends how kinky you are in bed, it could actually be a good thing. Especially if her friends are hot. Do you have any pics of them you could post?
When her friends are around do they raise their pinky finger and start giggling? Me too...That is totally unacceptable.
women usually tell their girlfriends everything...and I mean everything. This isn't uncommon and you shouldn't get pissed about it.
Exactly. Unless you find a girl that has no friends (and you don't want that), this is going to be commonplace in relationships.
You have to accept that. I tell my girlfriends stuff. There is NOT a woman out there that don't tell their girlfriends stuff! Just tell her to not have her friends to discuss things with you.
Precisely. She's always going to use her friends as sounding boards and for b**** sessions. Heck, a lot of guys do it too. What are friends for anyway? I actually think it's healthy to be able to speak with a third party about relationship issues. I would suggest you get used to it.....or become a monk.
wow, seriously? i have listened to SO many of my friends b**** about their boyfriends, it's just the common thing to do.
Thats what girls do, they gossip amongst themselves.. I'm sorry, your just going to have to deal with it. Really are you that self conscious about yourself that you truly care what her friends think? As long as they aren't telling her that she needs to break the relationship off after whatever she just told them I really could care less. BTW, thats your one free reply, anything more costs some pics
deal with it. it will happen and if you complain to her about talking to her friends then she will only tell them about it
Dude, who cares. People need others to confide in when they need to blow off steam. I shudder to think what my wife tells people......on the other hand...I could care less. DD