Just curious for you guys that have been in relationships, marriages, etc. have you guys ever been cheated on? If so, how many times?
My ex for wanting to end things used the excuse "maybe we're meant to be, but now" and "i'm still young" bullcrap. Then I found out a week later she had been receiving roses from her co-worker. Here's the difficulty with women... if they feel they are not being treated right, they will try to get revenge on you in the most hurtful way-- by being a slut. On the other hand, if we men feel like we're not being treated right, we go drink with our buds or some crap like that. Most women don't see that relationships are about meeting halfway. They want to feel like princesses and be given roses occasionally. You can never feel too comfortable with women because deep inside they could be hiding some **** feelings about the relationship and one way or another BOOM they're flirting with other guys.
Excuse me, the first sentence above is all messed up. Should be "my ex who wanted to end the relationship used the excuses...".
It happened to me twice. Both of them were pieces of crap and I'm glad their gone. FWIW, both of their lives went completely downhill after they cheated on me and ended their relationships with me. Living well is the best revenge.
A little advice for the younger guys on the board. Never and I mean never marry a girl that slept with you on your first date.
What if the two have been close for months, have established feelings for eachother and it happens on the first date? Need opinions from my cf brahs.
This. Marry? Don't even date them. If a girl lets you hit on a first date, hit and split. She asked for it.
What about the ones with artificial timelines? Wait 90 days etc? Seems like game playing there Rocket River There are not absolutes. . . just never get married period! *LOL*
I'm just saying if a women makes it easy for you, she will not have a problem making it easy for someone else. I don't see anything wrong with a timeline.
Have you ever suspected your girlfriend of cheating and you get scared to lose her so you just hug her really tight and don't let go and you have an out of body experience where you hear screams but you dont know who or why and then her body goes limp so you decide to keep it at home in the closet for safe keeping?