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Happy Father's Day, mother f*****s!

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by Xerobull, Jun 17, 2018.

  1. Buck Turgidson

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    Awesome stuff.

    My only recommendation is that most people are smart enough to not kneel on rocks.
     
  2. Deckard

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    Words so true, @boomboom. I lost my father in 1983. He had incredibly high lipids (cholesterol, triglycerides, etc.) due to a genetic fault that I inherited from him. Unfortunately, they hadn't discovered statins, like Lipitor (which I take in large doses and why I'm still here) and he had numerous heart attacks. A university professor and department chair, he had excellent health insurance and took every experimental drug available. They didn't work. He received one of the early by-pass surgeries from Dr. Denton Cooley (a famous heart surgeon at the time who did some of the early heart transplants).

    Dad had a tremendous will to live. A trip to the Mayo Clinic, where they couldn't believe his lipid numbers, doing all the tests twice, led to them telling him not to make any long range plans. He beat their estimate by more than 20 years. Dad hoped to qualify for a transplant, but Dr. Cooley told him that he was too old, and too damaged for it to work. This was when he was in the hospital, yet again, and in really bad shape. Three days later he was gone. I was standing outside the door to his room as they worked on him. It was a tough moment.

    Every extra year he managed was a blessing. I still miss my father and think about him often. He's who is in my thoughts on Father's Day. My grown children make a fuss over me, my daughter in person, still living in Austin, and my son, out of town, on the phone. They never knew their grandfather and I can't really explain what they missed. Perhaps one day they'll understand.
     
  3. boomboom

    boomboom I GOT '99 PROBLEMS
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    Deckard, that was beautiful.
     
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    eloquently said, breh. i don't really know my dad, he's distant with his kids and he's mean and harsh. what i know about him, i was told by mum or older cousins. anyway, hope i could be a good dad when i grow up.
     
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  5. Buck Turgidson

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    Cheers, bro, and bless.

    I can't even tell the story yet.
     
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    Second-hand infornation is gossip. Talk to him.
     
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    Made me teary eyed. Of course I couldn't help of think of my own loved ones as I read it.

    @Deckard should think about writing down some of his stories for his family (if he hasn't already). Seriously, they're a treat to read.
     
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    Great story deckard and another reminder for those of us who still have fathers to appreciate them while they are still here.
     
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  9. Buck Turgidson

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    This. I lost mine ~9 years ago. I still talk to him when the situation is right.
     
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    i dare not. breh scary no cap frfr
     
  11. ima_drummer2k

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    Happy late Father's Day, everyone!

    I had lunch with my dad on Saturday and dinner with my father in law Sunday. Saturday night and Sunday afternoon were spent in the pool and watching the Astros get swept by the Reds.

    Got a sweet Astros coffee mug from one kid, a Rockets basketball from the other and a new basketball goal for the pool from my wife (among other things, if you catch my drift....).

    Besides the Astros, it was a great weekend! I didn't even have to grill! But I do have to put this goal together at some point...
     
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  12. Buck Turgidson

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    Pool Sports are great. Good on ya, dude.
     
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    Unfortunately with new transcending information, statins are a nuance for most. Controlling insulin via diet and cortisol via emotional response is the true path to metabolic health and preventing heart disease.
     
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    I assume you meant a nuisance. Not for me. With my cholesterol over 600 and my triglycerides at 1200 without meds, as I said in my post, I wouldn’t be here today without statins. I have my liver function, blood sugar, and several other things checked twice a year, and limit myself to a pint of Harp when I play trivia with the guys once a week. I get a good “emotional response” from being alive at my age.
     
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