You guys have it so easy. Over here, you have to first figure out if the girl dates AT ALL, then you have to figure out if she dates people outside HER culture (or nationality), and then once you have all that out of the way, 90% of the time you have to pursue your relationship in secret (from your parents) and always worry about WHERE THE HELL to go on a date so that there won't be someone there who will tell your parents (uncles/aunts/enemies).
She thinks you're gay. End of story. By the way, baqui, have you ever posted in a thread where you haven't mentioned pooper?
Well, I asked her if she wanted to go out on a date this weekend, and she said sure. We're going to see a movie tonight. So thanks for the advice.
Considering the thread and where this post was (strategicially) placed, I have to say Best. Post. Ever.
I freaking told you so Good luck and just be yourself. (the best version of yourself ) Have fun, don't push things, but don't hold back from being romantic either. Little things like flowers and stuff DO work. Don't go out and buy a whole ton of flowers, but a single rose will usually work. Sounds corny, but girls like it when you go the extra mile. Be a gentleman. Open all of her doors. Let her lead the way to the table in the restaurant. Have her tell you what she wants if you go out to eat and order for her. Surprise her with a dessert. All the romantic mumbo jumbo really works and girls like that you put forth and effort. Make good conversation. Don't spend every minute talking about your feelings, but make it be known that you are interested. Just don't go over the top. Some chicks think holding hands is too forward on a first date, shows commitment. All chicks like it when you offer your arm to escort them, however. have fun, and always ask for the next date (if it went well) at the end of this date. Shows that you had a good time. Sounds like you are interested in a relationship, not just sex, so that is fantastic. Don't come on too strongly. Hope you have a good time. Oh...try to avoid a movie as the date. Movies are a way out because you don't talk to each other. do something fun, and something that you both like, AND, make sure that you can talk to each other when doing it. Edit. Oops.. guess you are going on a movie. At least make sure there is a time when you actually talk....dinner or something too. Oh...see what she wants to see.
now... after the movie when you are alone... go for a walk somewhere. Now pretend to step on an ant hill and get bitten by fire ants... drop you pants and hurl them far away... make sure she gets a good look at the outlay of the goods. now yell at her "OH MY GOD, YOU'RE STANDING RIGHT ON THE MASTER FIRE ANT HILL, TAKE YOUR PANTS OFF AND TOSS THEM INTO THE GUTTER!" Things will go on from there.
Yeah, I know, but it was her suggestion, and she picked the movie. So I'm gonna do my best to fit in as much conversation as possible. Thanks for the useful advise.
The mind games don't stop in school...They follow you the rest of your life... When you get older, you don't want to have any regrets about anything...I coulda, woulda, shoulda, etc... You know that saying, if I knew then what I know now, that is exactly right...So here's my two cents... Be upfront and ask her what the deal is and that you'd like to pursue it... If she says yes, great, if she says no, move on... "Life is too short" - Too Short...
SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND! Yes, she actually said she would have felt so bad about saying no that she accepted my invitation to go out on a date with me, and then two days later broke it to me that she has a boyfriend back in Guam! (That's where she's from) WHY MUST WOMEN DO THIS!? It would've been way better if she had just said "no, I have a boyfriend" in the first place. Oh well. Time to find another prospect.
She sounds like a b!tch who doesnt know what she wants - hence the games and stuff. It sucks but thats how college girls are..... Sure she's hot and seems to dig you from time to time, but dude you're in college. Have a beer or two and meet some cooler girls who aren't still in love with their high school sweetheart. Ignore her, date some other chicks, and watch her coming running back into your arms. Works every time. Good luck man..... Keep us updated on how it goes...... edit - just read your above post...... Guam?!?!? That must be an expensive long distance relationships (those NEVER work out either by the way).
Damn dude that sucks, i suggest that you just be her friend cause maybe she has some hot friends , and remember there will always be someone
Don't let it bother you. One turned you down, that means you need to go out and ask out 9 more before the end of next week. Plenty of fish out there.
Yes, I caught the irony as well... Not to sound like a broken record, but MOVE ON. Meeting chicks in college is so easy that even I managed to do it. Early and often. Don't even think twice about some dingbat that can't let go of her high school days, you have more chicks to meet.
