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First time telling a girl that I like her..and friendzoned..

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by ClutchCity3, Jan 14, 2013.

  1. supdudes

    supdudes Member

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    I like this thread
     
  2. KDJ3

    KDJ3 Contributing Member

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    You always know that you don't tell a girl that you like her cuz it makes you look like an idiot!
     
  3. TheresTheDagger

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    Always remember....

    No matter how hot, sexy, desireable a woman is....

    Someone,
    Somewhere,

    Is sick of her *****.
     
  4. So Good

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    Majority of the time it doesn't work. It's usually on the girl to make it work.

    The girl is always afraid that she'll lose you and the guy will usually want to take that risk to see if there's anything more.

    With that said, when it does work, it works. I know a few married friends where they were friends for a LONG time and they ended up marrying each other. So there are instances where it does work.

    Those instances could be the exception to the rule, however.
     
  5. Han Solo

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    Just don't resort to p*rn. :(
     
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    If 90s y 2000s Rom Coms have taught me anything is that the friend always gets the girl.
     
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    One year of being friends is what she is expecting of you dummy...
     
  8. CCorn

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    Let me at depth to what I said earlier. Ignore her and bang everything in sight. You're 19.
     
  9. what

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    Isn't the "friendzone" a 90s concept?

    2012 ladies have moved beyond the firendzone to "Act like a woman, think like a man."
     
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    It happens
     
  12. Caltex2

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    Ding, ding, ding, we have a winner. They find it corny, which is unfortunate because I'm considered very sweet.

    That's why you should pick up a hobby like poetry. You can start off PG then with the girl move to MA or X-rated stuff. Or you can perform at Spoken Word clubs, that'll rile 'em up.
     
  13. ubigred

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    Lmfaoooooooo
     
  14. rawool

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    I missed this earlier. I also agree with this.
     
  15. G.O.A.T.

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    Never tell a person of the opposite sex "how you feel". That NEVER works. If your friends, just put yourself in a good situation. Tell her you got free tickets to something she likes and invite her, have a few drinks, or just get yourselves into a romantic situation. Just like in sports, put yourself in a situation to succeed. Telling a girl how you feel is just a Hail Mary, a low percentage play.
     
  16. Svpernaut

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    Very good points. If you've already slept with her, it becomes more like an inside slant. You still have to be aggressive, but it is a relatively safe call with potentially huge rewards if you execute properly.

    I LOVE SPORTS ANALOGIES!
     
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    why would you NOT be her friend? be her friend.

    let me tell you a ninja move. in the next few days go up and say something like I have always thought you friend so-and-so was cute. She seems down to earth, blah blah blah. would you introduce us.

    hahahaha, this will work. believe me.
     
  19. Caltex2

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    Unwanted pregnancy and STD's are real, even if being avoided. I say have a blast being young (not recklessly though), stay on your academic grind and just grow as person. Let life come to you, not the other way around.:grin:
     
  20. Xerobull

    Xerobull You son of a b!tch! I'm in!

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    Tell her thanks but **** off, you met an awesome chick. That will bring her running. Nothing piques a woman's fancy like competition.

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