I think I know the answer to your problem: stop dating b****es(Miami b****es) and start dating ladies.
first, confirm your suspicion. then don't say anything to her. act as if things are fine but start making conversations about faithfulness and loyalty. pour it on thick. tell her you know she would never do anything like cheating because she's a person of integrity. never come outright accusing her because all she'll do is deny. but if you play on her guilt, watch her squirm.
Look its pretty much confirmed that she was cheating on you. Who else besides family would park their car in someone elses driveway. If you're still unsure go to her house and see what everyone else drives. After you've confirmed lay it all on her, make her feel like crap, leave and move on with your life. And if you can do this a while her family is there, the better.
She did you a favor by getting caught. It's better you find out now, than later. Just move on. If you continue to play around w/ fire, you may get yourself burned. Not worth it imo.
F that "live and let live" crap. Get even, she screwed you over, make that B pay. Don't do ANYTHING for her, straight f-buddy mode till she starts getting sad, then blast her on facebook. Let her friends know she's a w****.
Do it like a man. Take her out to her last supper. Make it very nice. After eating a nice dinner and having drinks, confront her in a very dignified, matter of fact, soft tone. No raising of the voice. Just matter of fact and straight forward, "Look, let's stop pretending here, I've got the evidence, I know what's going on. Do you want to come clean?" Give her a chance to respond. If you don't like what she comes out of her mouth, don't react with any kind of emotion. Simply pay the bill and leave her at the table. And don't look back. Block her calls, texts, and emails. And move on without her. Now, if she expresses remorse, and you want to attempt to work through it, gotta take a slightly different approach. Let her repent and all that stuff. Don't say anything. When she is done, simply say you need some time to think and you don't want to say anything right now. Pay the bill, take her home, drop her off, don't say anything, don't touch her, no physical contact at all. Then leave her place with no committments. Then wait and see what she does next. Don't contact her. Wait until she contacts you. When she does contact you, don't answer the phone or text or email immediately. Let her stew and fret for a while. Then return her approach a couple days later, tell her you've been busy, and ask her what she wants. No emotion. Just keep stringing her out like this over and over and over until she is bending over backwards to win your favor back. That is if you want to salvage the relationship. Of course if you don't want to salvage it, just leave her in the cold way I described above. That will eat at her for years to come.
I feel bad for you. Definitely a crappy feeling. It definitely sounds like she was stepping out on you, but you're right to make sure first. I'd not first accuse her directly because she may come up with an excuse that's a lie. I'd just do something like ask if she'd heard from Andres lately, and when she asks why you're asking, just smile and say, and say you were just curious. Then see if she lies about it. If she lies about it, then she's definitely dishonest and you can confront her with the truth or deal with it however you want.
Say nothing to her about knowing she cheated -- don't see her or really talk with her for about a week then call her and break up with her. Quick and clean then move on head held high.
You should have texted her, asked if she was awake, since you were gong to pass by her side of town, and waited for a reply. Just to fck with her and also see what she replies or does.
She knew i was gonna find out so she textes me out of the blue with "hey look i got ****ed up last night, a few of my friends slept over, one of them was andres. He slept in the guest room with some friends, nothing happened. I swear to god". She HAS expressed to me that she was friends with her ex before. She did lean for the first time last night so that's adding fuel to the fire. I think it's bull**** but whatever. There's the update for now.
